Help... She scares me.?
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i really cant tell as she made me swear , besides im too scared to tell
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Girl, you absolutely need to tell your parents! They'd be the best ones I think (as long as you feel comfortable talking to them) because they'll know what to do, and it's easier to tell them than your friends parents. Then your parents can tell her parents OR your parents can call a professional to help her. (Maybe her parents are part of the problem, and she's afraid to tell them because of that.)
But you do need to tell someone...an adult. (Maybe even a teacher or a pastor or something if it's hard to tell your parents.)
This girl needs major help, and like someone said before, it's not fair for her to make you promise...now you kind of have her life in your hands.
Keep in mind though...if by now she's done something drastic and it's too late; it's NOT your fault! You're only 12, and it's such a hard thing for you to deal with! Do what you can, and it's good that you got on here to at least ask someone. I'll keep you in my prayers hon...hopefully by now you've already talked to someone. If not, do right now. God bless! :)
Please try to talk to her parents and tell them what ever you know about these all and request them to help her. Or ask any NGO out there to help her out.
Hurting yourself is a mental disorder. You may have promised not to tell but this friend needs help! You will be saving her life by telling her parents. He parents can take her to her family dr. and he can refer her for treatment.
Honey, you can't take this all on yourself. Your friend is not thinkin clearly and needs help in a hurry.
I know you promised, but she is being unfair asking you to keep something like that a secret. It's just too big for yoo to deal with alone, and her life is at risk.
I know it's a big thing, but you must tell your parents and ask them to help you decide what to do.
theres nothing else you can do but tell someone, such as an adult, her parents, or someone that can get her some help because if this continues she could end up killing herself and you dont want to know about this and if something unfortunate does end up happening, you will feel terrible for not saying something. and if she gets mad oh, well. because she sounds like she has mental issues and really needs help that you cant give and being silent is not going to hel the situation.
Honey, you may feel guilty if you do break your promise and tell, but how guilty will you be if she is dead and you could have helped her by telling someone?
Even if your friend gets angry and doesn't talk to you, at least she will be alive.
If you can access that video, absolutely positively show it to an adult. You will be doing the right thing. If she were in a terrible car accident you would go running for help. this is just as bad if not worse. Please please please tell someone. Talk to your parents RIGHT NOW, and if you need to, talk to a school counselor so they can get in touch with her family and help her.
babe
this is soo hard i know
but pet your going to have to tell someone you
trust you could make up an exuse to the por girl saying while she was slitting her wrists on webcam your mom or dad walked in??
and saw and they were worried ?? i'm not sure but you have to say something my friend used to slit her wrist and self harm herself
and if you don't tell soon
it will start to effect you emotianally
She needs help fast quick and in a hurry...TELL!! you dont want her to die do u?? You should tell ;[
i no ur scared. and i no u promised. but if ur really scared and worried for ur friend, u have to tell ur parents. NOW! this is serious. shes trying to kill herself, and u have to get her help b4 its to late! please tell ur parents!
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