Why does it always hurt?


Question:
ive been having sex for a lil over a month now and it still hurts when my bf first penetrates me does anyone know why this is?
after a lil while the pain goes but why does it keep happening?
p.s. can u have sex during ur period?

Answers:
yes u can have sex during ur period.. if u have a sex pain, it could be infection... but have talk with ur doctor about it...
If you've got thrush or cystitis you find intercourse painful. It is caused by having sex when you are not lubricated and your boyfriend needs to learn how to make love properly and try foreplay if you want to do it. As for having sex when you are on your period, yes you can, but sex during that time leaves you more open to catching serious diseases like aids and you really don't want that now do you?
You should not be having sex till after you are married.
Talk with your doctor. They can do a physical exam and make sure there aren't any complications or infections.

Now here's a story I heard the might apply and get you to the doc...

And elderly woman came into a urologist for the first time because she was just starting to experience incontinence. Along with a battery of questions he did a physical exam and discovered that her urethral opening was huge. A few more questions revealed that the couple was child less. So putting two and two together he figured out that her husband had been using her urethra all these years and that she was still a virgin!

This probably isn't your case 'cause that guy would have had to be really small in the first place! But it never hurts to talk to a doctor!
Ask your parents, and if you're worried they'll be mad...maybe you shouldn't be having sex.
Are you using lube? Sex is often painful for me, even if I am aroused, but I have found that using lots of KY helps relieve the pain. It probably goes away after a while because the moisture in your vagina will spread around after he goes in and out a few times. Try the lube. If that does not help, see your doctor.

Yes, my hubby and I have sex period or no period. It is totally up to you and your guy whether or not you want to have sex while having your period. Some guys hate seeing blood on their penis though. If you do, make sure you are still using condoms, because you can still get pregnant or get an STD. It might help if you lay a towel down on the bed underneath you in case any blood drips down.
don't have sex during your period unless you are planning on getting pregnant
Yes, you can have sex during your period. I've been hurting ever since Feb when I became sexually active. My gyno says I have a small opening.
I suspect that inexperience means that you are not totally relaxed when penetration occurs and some vaginal spasm is producing resistance. Increased foreplay may help, or the use of a simple lubricant.

You can have sex during your period, many women seem to find this especially enjoyable for some reason. Remember if you ar generally using condoms for contraception, you should do so even at period time.
it's probably because your not lubricated enough. try durex play or tingle lube
Make sure you are well-lubricated. Try KY jelly (you can buy it over the counter at chemists and supermarkets) and that your man is gentle. Yes, having sex during a period is fine. You may like to lie on a towel, to avoid making a mess of the sheets
1.Are you properly lubricated. Make sure u spend time on foreplay. Your body has natural lubricants that get set free when your stimulated. If this doesn't work buy an artificial lubricant. And if it still doesn't work you might have a infect go talk to your doctor.
2.Of coarse you CAN but do you really want to? just remember you can still get pregnant!
i still get this and ive been sexually active for about 4 years. try to make sure you have plenty of foreplay so the vagina is wet enough for penetration. Also, you have to relax, so it will be more comfortable.
Yes, you can have sex while on your period, but it can get rather messy! so be prepared
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