WOMEN ONLY PLEASE. Female orgasm issue.?
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A lot of female orgasm "issues" come from mental blocks. Is she comfortable? Does she feel sexy? Has she been stressed lately? Is she mentally plugged into the situation (there's a lot going on in her head, is she able to relax and let it go or is she thinking about that big project that she needs to do?) or is she distracted? Are you two on the same page when it comes to the kind of sex you like? Does she know what kind of sex / how she likes it and is she able to tell you? Is she able to orgasm by herself? (if she isn't, she should probably see a doctor.)
There is no set sure-fire technique for a woman to have an orgasm - every woman is different. Some love oral, some hate it. Some can orgasm via vaginal sex, some can't. Some love it when their gspot is hit, others that just doesn't do it. The physical stuff is the simple stuff that you can find out through trial and error, both with herself (masturbation) and together.
You both need to be on the same page mentally. Experiment within this mental realm. Try setting up a romantic atmosphere. That's not working? Try tying her up and then doing it - or getting tied up yourself. That's not working? Try having sex in a semi-public place. Etc. etc. Be creative and keep the communication open on what you like and don't like.
Concentrate on the clitoris. Take your time. Let her show you what she likes and what she doesn't.
use a vibrator on the clitoris, let her choose the speed that is comfortable for her and gently insert your fingers, not too deep, to help stimulate along with the vibrator!
well, some women take longer than others to reach orgasm. Try oral sex directly on her clitoris. you might consider getting a very small vibrator..(they make ones that are no bigger than your finger) to use on her too.
find her g-spot, she will definitely orgasm. you can google how to find it.
maybe you are not stimulating to her
Sorry pinkie-dick, the issue may not be with her, she just hasn't been NAILED properly
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