A girls firt time??
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Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. I can't stress enough how important foreplay is for a girl's first time. It will relax her and get her natural lubrication going. Take things slow. Make sure she is ready for you to penetrate her by asking her. When you do finally start intercourse, take it slow and easy. Her vagina is not used to having a penis inside it. She may or may not bleed, and she may or may not have pain or discomfort her first time. That is something that is different from woman to woman.
do it softly, hold her hand while doing it. She might bleed or she might not, but just be gentle with her and everything, dont rush things =] Best of luck to you!
if you're still calling sex "it" maybe you aren't mature enough to be having sex...
and if her hymen isn't already broken, she will most likely bleed/swear/any other expression of sudden pain
It's different for everybody, buddy. There are no magical answers as to what will happen. Just relax, go slow, and please use protection! True, it might be a bit uncomfortable the first time, but that's Mother Nature's fault, not yours. Just relax, think, don't rush it, and it'll all fall into place.
Take it SLOW! I don't know of a lot of girls that enjoyed their first time! Make sure you wear a condom and don't be ashamed to use lube! Being new to sex, she may not get aroused as quick, and may be quite dry and tense (due to nerves)! Yes she will probably bleed afterwards, that is normal! But above all, listen to her during sex and foreplay! Make sure she is comfortable, ask her if she likes what you are doing, and vice versa! And if at any time, she asks you to stop or feels uncomfortable, make sure you respect her wishes!!
Hi dude,
You are placing way too many expectations on this experience. There are too many variables. For example, an obvious one.. your friend may be a virgin but her hyman may not be intact. It shouldn't matter whether your friend is or is not a virgin... you should tread water as the river rises rather than trying to swim on the beach... that is, chillaxe and let her take control of the situation.
well rule number one most important she needs to be well lubracted if she isnt it will hurt like h*ll for her and iit wont feel good for you ethier. take it slow and look into her eyes not her body. make this about her and what you two share not about your sex drive....best possition for a first timmer missionary (you on top of her). make sure what ever you to do you use condoms and u get regular screenings because nothings 100% safe and std's can stay in your body and not progress for yrs so u could have something and not know about it. set the mood for her and her body will tell you if u are doing what she likes good luck and please stay safe
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Sounds like you are receiving a lot of good sex advice here, but not many letting you know that maybe sex isn't the right thing to go for right now. If she is truly special to you then why the rush? For both of you, neither should be in a hurry to do this right now. You certainly don't sound very old at all, what, maybe 14? Way too young for the "RESPONSIBILITY" of sex.
Before you have sex, ask yourself: Am I ready to be a daddy?? Because every time you have sex you risk becoming a daddy and having all the responsibilities that come with it. Even with protection kiddo.
Sorry to be the dead beat here, but I am a mother of a 13 year old daughter, and I would hate the thought of one of her guy friends coming here to ask how to take her virginity.
IF you think you are ready for this, then I suggest that you let her lead the way. Let HER let YOU know that she's ready. If she is then ask if she's on the pill. If not, you might want to take her to the local free clinic to get the pill and wait that first month. Then STILL use protection.
It's a shame though that you can't wait. Waiting makes it all that much more special when it does happen.
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