Self concious about the upper area! i'm 13!?


Question:
okay i have like already an A 34-36 bra size and i'm only 13! well most of my friends are way bigger than me and like i really don't want to have big ones. i have a small frame(i'm talking 80 lbs.-i'm 13) and like i'm reallyskinny and they don't match me! what can i do to make them appear smaller( i can't wear cute shirts cuz they stick out so much!)

Answers:
sports bras help. they kindof squash them down.
You could wear sports bra 's instead. Besides A cup size insn't really that big to tell you the truth
They make bras that are called minimizers, you could look for those, but really you just have to accept yourself the way you are, they may seem like they stick out so much now but after a while you will get use to the way they look, it will be ok. I use to hate my body, thought I was fat and so on at your age. I am 34 and wish I could only be so "fat" again LOL but honestly I wish I could have learned to accept my body at your age, you are much more beautiful than you know.
be happy the way you are or buy a minimizer if its THAT important to you. im 13 and im an A 34-36 also. and i am perfectly happy the way i am. so good luck but i wouldnt worry about it.
You shouldn't be concerned about your size. Who cares what your friends have? Everyone is gonna be different.

But yea, a sports bra would help keep them down.
thats not really big im 5'7 and 115 pounds so if i seam skinny to u then okay but im not fat or anything and thats my size so whatever dont wear a padding bra
to be quite honest with you i was a 36-D in sixth grade and i think regardless of your breast size your going to be a little concious of your boobs all of your life. i still think they're too big. and im 5'3" and weigh 165ish and am almost a DD. so dont worry about just love yourself and ppl will love u :) good luck
You can't control how big or small you are but I can tell you, you probably are done growing, at least in that area. Don't worry about so much because there are millions of adult women who have a total hangup about their bodies because of how they felt at your age. Don't let it become an obsession. Try to accept your body and be happy you aren't as big as your friends. 34-36 is NOT huge it's just a big change to get used to when you're already feeling self-conscious about growing up. Believe when I tell you ABSOLUTELY EVERYONE feels like this at your age. Tall, short, big, small, black, white . . . everyone is self-conscious so try to get used to the changes and accept your body now so it won't turn into a larger problem later in life.
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