Is this really true?

Question:

I heard that if you lose your viginity to a person you will always have a special bond to that person and even if you marry someone else you will always have their love deep inside you. I am asking this because i will lose mine next year after graduation and i wondering if that's true. Is it because it's your first time so you remember it or just some thing that can not be explain.

Answers:
I think that you will always have some sort of bond. Afterall, they did take your virginity. None of my friends are with the person they lost it to, and they all lost it by 8th grade. I waited until I felt ready and knew who I wanted to lose it to. I was with my boyfriend for 8 months before I was ready and we are still together. We will always have "something" even if we break up in the future and go our seperate ways.

Yes.

That is not true as many women give in to sex after pressure from their partner and they don't even love them. They regret it afterwards. Yes I do remember my special first person but do I have a special love for him because he was my first?? Nope.

If you really care about the person you're losing your virginity to and they care about you, then you probably will have a special bond, especially if you value yourself and don't want to give yourself to just anybody.

no I don't beleive its true.

I think the only way this is true is if you truly care about that person. Which you should before you have sex with anyone.

That's a buncha baloney. I can barely remember the 'occasion'...except that I should have waited. Puleez!

Anything you do that is a big deal like that you defiantly never forget . but know that is not true.

No. I don't even think about the guy I lost my virginity to and I don't care about him anymore.

sure

only if you truly love them and they truly love you at the time. the bond is just their b/c they gave you your first time. and i think thats all the bond really is.

I don't think that is true. Besides, why the hell do you have the time you'll lose your virginity planned out!?

2 Reasons:

1) its your first time (though u seem very sure of the when) so its a special moment for some. losing your virginity is one of the first steps to ensuring your free will as an adult and losing your adolescence

2) Girls feel the romance/satisfaction more. Testosterone in males cancels out the hormone that provides the satisfaction after sex almost completely so girls are susceptible to feeling like they'll love the man forever and can think about children whereas the boys are wondering whats on tv

so while it may be true theres a special moment its more a sentimental moment for the girl

Is this really true?

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