How many of you people bleed when you have been fingered?

Question:

i am a complete virgin, nothing has ever gotten near my, well, you know. my boyfriend and i want to save sex for later on, but we dont want it to be any more painful than it needs to be, or excessively bloody.

we are going to have him finger me but i would just like to know, from anybody elses experience, if they bled the first time they got fingered, or how much, or if it happoened times afterward, or even if it affected their first time having sex

Answers:
I broke my hymen during childhood. I actually remember it! I was playing on a jungle jim and OUCH!! I don't remember looking for blood, I was only about 10. It sounds like you two have a good plan. Have him be very gentle, start with one finger, then two. It might be too far in. Don't worry. It may already be broken. If you get a pap smear, you can ask the doc. If you bleed the first time, you shouldn't bleed again. Good luck, kids!! :)

I never did, but also I never did eaither the first time I had sex. It all depends on the person really sometimes people do bleed and sometimes they don't.

It depends how he finger you. If he do it too hard or too deep, it may just break the hymen. A broken hymen should not really affect first time having sex. The real thing is much bigger then his fingers. So the feeling is different.

I never did bleed when i was fingured or had sex for the first time.
First time normally does hurt, but yeahh let him finger you to get you a little looser so it doesnt hurt as bad!!

How many of you people bleed when you have been fingered?

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