Ladies..i need your help?
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I say get over her by filling your days with things that don't remind you of her. If you had a really deep relationship that probably sounds impossible, but I got over a 5 year smothering relationship and I'm glad it has ended now. You can't make anyone love you. If you keep pursuing it will probably annoy her and make you look like a stalker. You may be spending too much time on her to appreciate someone new or other things. Sorry about the sitch. It does take time to move on, so why not start now by erasing this question as soon as you are finish with it.
im sorry. i know how you feel and its the pitts! you cant make someone love you if they dont. this is obviously happening for a reason, even though the reason may be so unclear. if you and her are meant to be together, then in the end you will. try to keep a positive outlook on life. do lots of fun things with friends and keep yourself busy. focus on yourself. who knows. you may meet someone even more incredible.
"It's called a break-up because it's broken"
You need to move on, you can not make someone start loving you. There is a saying "you can't make a heart love somebody"
Think of it in this term--if there is a room full of people and a dog walks in, the dog is being petted, once that person stops petting, it moves on to the next person. That is exactly what you need to do.
There is also another saying "once a cheat, always a cheat"
you do not want to have a relationship with the question of her fidelity always in the back of your mind, especially in a long distance relationship.
Come on... Be a man... What I did worked pretty good. I got drunk for a month, screwed everything in a skirt, with percentages on my side I eventually met Lori. Lover, best friend and confidante. We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 of those and I could not have asked for a greater life.
Wow, i feel you man. If she has stopped loving you and slept with someone else she wants to move on. That is what you should do. I personally concentrated on what was nxt in priority in my life. For example, im going to skool and i work out and friends help alot also. Whatever you do, dont go around getting girls to use them as rebound. You dont want to break hearts. Find what you like to do, wheather its a sport or hobby, and do it whenever you start thinking bout her. The hardest thing is letting go, but with time, it will get easier. Expand your friends circle, and meet other women. The fact that you are away should help. I hope this helps. You can email me if you want more help or have questions. BTW, im still trying to get over her...
you should move on. her feelings have changed, it happens. there is the real "one" out there, she wasn't it.. and you also might want to seek some counseling on anger to better control it.
Young love is one of the strongst feelings I have ever felt. It is trully beautiful that you have love for this girl. The thing that you should learn from this relationship is this: She was a love that you had for a time and if she doesn't love you anymore than SHE DOESN'T DESERVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. She doesn't love you but you will someone who will. You will need to forgive her and move on. It was correct for you to punch objects and you handled that well. Now you shoule relax and try getting over this girl. I hope everything goes well because I had the same situation and I have found someone that loves me as much as I love him and would never cheat. God Bless you
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