Am i still a virgin?

Question:

i'm 16 years old, and last night my boyfriend and i decided to have sex. we were eachother's firsts. anyway, he had his entire head in, and the pain was unbelievably bad. so i asked him to pull out. he did so, and i noticed there was a lot of blood. like i've read that there should be little blood, but there was a considerable amount on the sheets. but since he only got partially in (but he WAS in) and i had all that amount of blood, would my hymen be broken? like someone please answer, i don't know if i can consider myself a virgin or not? and the pain was so intense, like stinging. will it hurt when we go to do it next time? i mean.. if he didn't get all the hymen the first time.. should i expect pain sitll? my real question is : is there any chance some of my hymen is there and needs to be broken, even though his head and slightly more was in me and i bled so much? i'm just sooo scared of more pain. thank you and please answer my questions!

Answers:
You just need to relax, don't tense up. And try to be as comfortable as possible, the best position for a first-timer would be the missionary. You laying down on the bed and him on top of you. Just make sure you're really wet beforehand that way it'll be easier and less painful. Tell him to take it slow and remember to stay relaxed, it makes a big difference. As for the blood, every woman is different, some bleed a little, some bleed alot, and some don't bleed at all. But I would say that your hymen is definitely broken.

You are no longer a virgin, but there could be vestiges of your hymen still intact. So, you could still have more pain and bleeding next time.

Aside: Please tell me you used condoms...

You are not a virgin anymore. Doesn't matter if he was partially in. Also the hymen has nothing to do with virginity. It can be broken at anytime. You might have pain the next time. Just depends on your body.

since you said you bled A LOT, i would guess that your hymen is broken and that you can no longer classify yourself as a virgin

I still consider myself a virgin after my stay in prison because we used to play just the tip, too.

im still a virgin but umm stinging uhhhhhh i dont think thats supposed to happen and alot of blood uhh nooo go to a doctor cuz that is not right and i poped my cherry(tampon) lol n theres only a tiny bit of blood but not a whole bunch

you are too young to be having sex and I hope you used a condom and no you are no longer a virgin and it will probably hurt the next time you do it but not as bad.

no ur no ta virigin and he only popped ur Cherry and the more u do it will fell better

your no longer a virgin..welcome to the world of world! Please,Please use a condom!

No you are not a virgin anymore.. however its hard to tell you if there will be pain the next time. It all depends. YOu need to relax more as this will help relieve the pain. Use lots of foreplay.. It will be a bit uncomfortable for you a couple of time but if the bleeding continues see a doctor for a check up..

Hope he had his willy gift wrapped for you

No you're not a virgin. Did the bleeding stop? If not please see a doctor fast, and yes, it will hurt next time and probably for the next 20 or so times.

not a virgin

It may hurt the next time, depending on how long you wait before you try again - so wait until you are healed. Next time have him try his fingers first to stretch you some and find how how painful it might be.

Make sure you are well lubericated even if you have to buy KY-Jelly at the drug store.

The fact that you had sexual intercourse means that you are no longer a virgin. I really cannot say whether or not it will hurt the next time around, b/c everyone is different.

Am i still a virgin?

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