Im a Terrified Virgin! Help!?
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wow well your in a sticky situation ain't ya
just get it over with
your love with overwrite the pain
... i hope
if he is huge you can try mine , mine is small
The vagina can stretch to accomodate the birth of a baby so a man's penis will definately fit. If you are afraid you won't be wet enough from foreplay then get some astroglide at the store and use it. Also be sure you have a plan in place in case you accidently get pregnant as no birth control is 100% effective. If you haven't discussed what you will do if you get pregnant accidently with your partner then you MUST do this before you even think of having sex. Also be sure this is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with as intercourse is for the person you would spend the rest of your life with. Good Luck.
You will tear a bit, that's inevitable. Just really get in the mood, and maybe a bit of lube just so there's no painful friction.
Your hymen will tear, unless it's not there anymore (which often happens to girls younger in life). Your vagina will be fine. the stretching will be uncomfortable because you're not used to having something that big inside you, but you should get over it quickly if you're really into the intimate contact. Lubricant works wonders, by the way, but you might not need it. Most women get really wet before entry, but you can try it if you like, especially if you're a virgin. If you use a condom (which I would highly reccomend), you can get an extra-lubricated brand, that will help too.
Your vagina will not tear unless it's dried out, and I don't think you will have a problem with that, so don't worry. You'll be fine.
Good luck!
Define huge. Chances are he has an average sized penis, but because you haven't seen many, or any, up until this point, you think he is huge. Just remember, the vagina is designed for a baby to come out, so it will definitely stretch to accommodate any size penis. As for making it less painful, foreplay is key. It gets your natural lubrication going and relaxes you. Don't let him rush you. Don't let him try penetration until you are ready for it. And of course, make sure he wears a condom the entire time.
don't worry maby for 2 or 3 second you'll feel pain that's OK after that you'll enjoy. I've tried it. trust me
Relax. Do that before anything else.
Make sure you 2 have a box of condoms and yes it's a good idea to have ky jelly. If you are embarased about buying the ky than just get a box of tampons at the same time.
Foreplay is always a good thing and a very important part of good sex. Take your time with it so you can relax and be aroused.
You definately want to use the ky and you may want to be on top so you can set the pace. Just relax and go slow. You probably won't feel much pain and maybe not any but if it really hurts and you are really really tense, give it a rest for that time. Don't force it.
Hope this helps..
I would definately recommend using lube for your first time. Some women have a little bleeding and pain the first time. I didn't have either one of those. Completly pain free for me. Just go slow and go at your own pace. Make sure you use a lubricated condom for safe sex every single time. If your scared losing your virginity, make sure you won't be delivering a baby anytime soon.
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