Masturbation?
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While the vast majority of people masturbate, there are a few that do not. It could be that she doesn't, or that she is not telling you because she thinks you will find it weird or dirty. For now all you can do is believe what she says.
i don't know. but i like to eat ham...
IT's normal to do it, or not to. It's a personal choice. It's also a personal choice whether to tell anyone else or not. I think it's none of your business.
Not everyone masterbates, it depends on the person and if they choose to.
most males and females have but not every one makes a ritual or regular practice of it, but as adolescence it's a natural part of growing up!
It's more normal to masturbate by 17 than not to but some women don't start then. It's not something everyone wants to admit to anyway.
If you think your gf is lying to you about masturbating than I don't know what to tell you. Maybe she was raised to think it's bad and is embarassed to admit it if she does. Maybe she doesn't feel close enough to talk about it to you.
Don't make an issue of it.
If she says she doesn't masturbate, she very well be telling the truth. I didn't think much about boys till I was 16-18 years old, and as far as masturbation goes, I was too busy with other things to think of pleasuring myself in that way. When I had the choice of self pleasure or the real thing, a real man was the better choice for me. I am not saying that a woman, ( or man ) shouldn't masturbate, just that I was in a relationship and didn't think of masturbation.
To tell you the truth, now that I am married, I find more time for self pleasure than I did when a teen or in my twenties. I have perfected my technique now, and can have 5 or more orgasms at a sitting, so it is much more fun than it used to be. Also being married, I dont have the same sex life as before marraige. Other more important things seem to take our time for the most part.
So if your friend says she doesnt masturbate, why shouldnt you believe her? Not everyone has the same hormone level , female or male. Just as not all males are controlled by their penis as a teen, ( though most seem to be ) then not all 17 year old girls masturbate, as well as not all 18, 19 or 20 year olds. She may be in the smaller percentage, but why do you care so much if she is or she isn't?The question is not if she does, or if she says she doesn't or she does, but mayby she would like her own privacy about private matters like this. There are a lot more virgins out there also who would not advertise that they are virgins for the same reason, it is private and they probably want to keep it that way.Besides, who decides what is normal? I guess you would have to take a poll of 100 17 year old females from the same socio economic group, same race, and then mayby see if you have a poll that says what is" NORMAL."
I don't masturbate, I'm 21. I would love to be able to masturbate, but I was always taught that SEX is bad, and touching/exploring your genitals is naughty! So now being an adult, it's very hard to me to get comfortable touching myself and she might be the same way. Not every girl masturbates, that's a stereotype. I just don't really know how, and I always thought it was gross getting off on your hand. But I don't anymore, and I still have yet to try and successfully masturbate.
some girls dont some girls do i love sex and i never masterbated until i was 20
I think alot of teenage girls don't feel comfortable admitting that they masturbate. I know I didn't at that age. It takes some people a little bit longer to become comfortable with their sexuality. I masturbated alot when I was younger and I also felt ashamed after, maybe it had something to do with being raised catholic, and sex was never a topic for discussion in our house while I was growing up. So give your girlfriend some time, she'll come around eventually. I know now that it's perfectly normal. So don't pressure your girlfriend like I said she'll come around. Maybe you can even give her a hand.
I think it's nomal. She might think it's weird or she might not even know how. Who knows. There are a lot of reasons why a girl wouldn't want to masturbate.
I started having sex when I was 16, but I didn't masturbate until I was 20. I just never wanted to try. Now I do it all the time...
Now that I think of it, my high school sweetheart and first husband used to swear that he never masturbated.can't believe I ever believed that.
First, realize that your genitals are among your body's most sensitive parts. Their skin is the thinnest of any. The younger you are, the more sensitive it seems to be — but it's easy for anyone to irritate or damage that skin. There are 4 types of injury that you risk: temperature burns, chemical burns, abrasion (scuffing or chafing the skin), and for males, damaging the circulation system in your genitals.
If you heat anything in a microwave oven or on a stove, intending to put your penis into it (or put it into your vagina), test it first on your cheek or the inside of your wrist. Realize that anything such as Vapo-Rub or alcohol that mildly stimulates the thicker skin on your hands, arms, or legs (especially if it contains alcohol or menthol) is likely to burn your genitals. A surface that may feel smooth to the touch of a finger still could be rough enough to scrape the skin of an erect penis or the membranes that line a vagina. Tying a string or putting a rubber band around the base of your penis or scrotum, if drawn tightly, can easily damage the blood vessels inside. (You need those blood vessels to get and keep an erection!) Although rare, it's possible to twist a testicle around inside your scrotum so the testicle's blood supply is cut off — the only fix is to go immediately to the emergency room, where the scrotum is cut open and the testicle physically untwisted so as to restore blood flow. There are normally no bacteria in urine, semen, or "pre-***," but your anus abounds in bacteria. Take great care to keep anything you use for anal stimulation away from other body parts (particularly your or a friend's vagina) until you can clean it. Absolutely do not trade anal toys with anyone. Furthermore, understand that although not everyone enjoys anal stimulation, people who do can be heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. Liking anal stimulation is *not* an indicator of sexual orientation.
Safe lubricants commonly available at home include baby oil, kitchen cooking oil, Vaseline, and K-Y Jelly (often better when supplemented with water). Enjoy your body's responses to sexual stimulation, but do so responsibly and with respect so you can continue to enjoy that response thoughout your life.]
i think that most teenagers masturbate. but not all teenagers masturbate. So she is probably one of the rare ones.
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