What does it mean when?
Question:
And it's every time. And my man junk is about average.
Could she have an std or yeast infection?
Is it me?
Has this happened to anyone else?
Answers:
Maybe she's not wet enough. That's the only thing I can think of. Soreness is cause by overactivity or dryness, neither of which is attributed to yeast infections Yeast infections are caused by a pH imbalance, and believe me, it's FAR from dry down there; yellowish discharge is a sign of a yeast infection. And soreness is not a typical effect from having an STD. So next time, you might try spending a little more time arousing her during foreplay, and use a little water-based lube (lubricant should ALWAYS be water-based!) on the both of you for a better, smoother feel.
...You know, something just occurred to me. Are you using condoms? For a long time I hated using them; the latex would chafe me during sex, so I would be horribly sore afterwards. I've since figured out that it was because they were ribbed, and I'm just fine when we use smooth ones. This may be the case with your girlfriend, too -- maybe the latex condoms are chafing her. If so, then switching brands and adding some water-based lube should definitely help.
Maybe u think it isn't rough but its too rough for her. And maybe she is just really tight. IDK what to tell u.
Yeast infection would be a good guess, that would make it hurt because she won't stay wet. She should probably see her doctor though.
SHE ISN"T WET ENOUGH! Foreplay sometimes alot of it. If that doesn't work PASSION!!
She might not be stretched out enough. Finger her first. Foreplay is everything man. Best thing is to start with one finger(index finger) and go in little circles, gently. It'll help to stretch it. You should be able to fit two fingers in(index and middle)and have a small amount of travel for going in little circles with your fingers. She should be lose enough to fit it in. You also may be too wide too. Which doing this will take care of. She may not be wet enough, or you aren't putting out enough lubrication. In that case use KY Jelly. If you are wearing a condom, the lube those have on them may be drying out a little, so same thing, use some KY Jelly.
NO vaginal swelling or just being sore into having sex does not mean that she could have an STD or a yeast infection.
YES this happens to a lot of people and yes it could possibly be your junk. Perhaps it's to large for her cervix which might be to small at the time. Try out some extra lube and try things a little bit slower. Try some finger play as well before anything with your junk.. it tends to help.
she might want to go see a doctor about the problem because i dont know if i have ever heard of that unless it is the first couple on times you do it after her virginity
I wouldn't worry about it. She probably has not had sex in awhile. I get sore easily whenever I don't have a lot of sex. Sex makes the vagina bigger and more flexible.
To begin with, it sounds like either you are not stimulating her enough due to lack of proper foreplay or perhaps your well blessed. It is also possible that if you are using condoms that she could be having a problem with the kind that you are using. Some women can actually be allergic to the latex of the condom, or even the lube that is used on them.
My suggestion is that you take more time in trying to stimulate her. If that doesn't seem to work perhaps using a waterbased lubercant to make things more comfortable for her. If that doesn't work perhaps changing the type of condom that you are using. I know that ones that are studded, ribbed and such can cause irratation. Hopefully, this info helps you out.
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