Im 13 but i think youngsters like me have gone to far?have we?
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BUT WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS SEX PRESSURE THING AT A YOUNG AGE ?
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I noticed that too. My senior year of high school I had a few boys who were about your age who followed me around 'cause they thought I was cool or whatever. And two of them told me they had lost their virginity at about 10. I was shocked. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 16...and I was still a virgin. I was stunned...until I got to know one of them better. He had joined the drama club and we hung out. And he began hanging out with all my friends. It wasn't because we thought "Aww cute kid we can play babysitter," it was because he acted like he was 17...and not a kid pretending to be a 17-year-old either. He was mature. And he talked about sex. He talked about respecting people...how he won't do it with girls who don't want it...talking about using protection...all of that stuff. Long story short...some people your age aren't ready and I don't think that people should put pressure on kids to do that when they're not ready especially because, once I got to college, I found out alot of people are virgins. But there are some kids your age who are mature and responsible...they understand the consequences of sex...they understand how to use protection...and they don't force it on others. My opinion is, that if people are mature enough (and maturity is not necessarily directly linked with age)...go ahead...if you're not...wait...and there shouldn't be any pressure. I am glad you made the choice to wait.
how far have you gone? im 13
Its all good - the younger the better. And thats within reason.
in highschool other things get shoved into mouths.
i think it is just wanting to act cool and doing it because they think it's cool and they don't want anyone else to feel like they haven't done it already! im 14
I'm a senior in highschool.. & I'm not going to lie.. you will be pressured into sex, drugs, alcohol, etc. all throughout your highschool career. Yes 12-14 is way too young to be engaging in that kind of stuff. Most freshman coming into my highschool this year, I could say that 80% of them are not virgins. Thats how bad society is getting now. If the boyfriend cares about you enough, he wont pressure you into having sex..whether your in highschool or not..
Don't let others ideas and pressure cause you to do something you may regret for the rest of your life. It is not just a game like kids think it is. Sex is for making babies. You get too many STD's from having sex these days. If you decide to do this make sure it is something you have thought about carefully before you do.It may affect the rest of your life.
Most kids are pigs these days (and, no, I'm not old). I hope you stick to your guns about not being pressured into having sex. Believe me, it's no big deal (not to girls anyway).
im 13 and i think ur rite. too many girls and maybe guys are getting pressured into having sex. MOST 13-15 year old girls THINK that they are mature enough to have sex, but there're not. you just need to set ur standers and stick with them. NEVER let any1 pressure u into ANYTHING you are not comfortable with.♥
I'm 13 and haven't had sex yet, but I talked to my mom about this. We are able to talk about pretty much anything. She said that this is nothing new. She's 46 and when she was my age (13) the pressure to have sex was just like it is today. She did get pressured into having sex at the age of 13 and she really regretted it. You need to not give in to the pressure and do what is best for you. The only person you're hurting is yourself (and your parents if they find out!).
there isnt a whole lot of pressure if you hang out with the right crowds. i know that when i went out with one guy, he talked me into it, and it was right before i turned 14. dont make the same mistake i did. now i have a gf that i love to death and even though we're still young, i wish i would have saved it for her. but yea, i totally agree with some of these questions about 12 yr olds having sex. its kinda rediculous. ur only 13... dont do it! save urself for the person you really love. and dont worry about the pressure in HS. as long as you know to stay away you'll be fine. =)
sorry to tell you but that is NOT the new style... it has always been that way!
i don't think sex has an age
if your ready your ready
if your not then don't pretend you are
my friend never had sex but she goes around with every guy and does everythin with them exept sex. but she plans on losing it this year. o yea there is pressure do to perverted guyz.
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