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On Friday, last week...July 27th, I had sex...condom broke, and I took plan b within 2 hours of it happening. I had my period on July 20th of last month. 6 days after taking the pills, this past thursday i began spotting. The spotting seemed mostly like old blood. I finally stopped yesterday, and today seem to have some clear discharge left over. It's not much though, I'm very nervous. I love my boyfriend, and used all the protection I can and promise myself I will go on birth control a.s.a.p. it's just a matter of hiding it from my mom. I'm not ready for a baby at all...I don't think it's possible, I have no symptoms but during the week I was spotting I kinda felt menstrual cramps, nothing really..I'm starting to think it was just in my mind from being scared. I'm not due for my period till August 16th, and have been praying that I'm not pregnant. Please tell me the chances, when the condom broke..he pulled out as he cummed anyway. Please give me good advice, and tell me I'm not preg.

Answers:
What you are experiencing is quite normal- it is common to experience period abnormalities after taking Plan B. Plan B is about 89% effective, if both doses are taken. You can still get pregnant if you take emergency contraception and then have sex again without using another kind of contraception or your birth control fails. Within the next month you should get a regular period. If not then see your doctor for an exam and testing to determine exactly what is going on- it's possible that pregnancy did occur, of which you should then be tested.
Well, you said that you took the Plan B within 2 hours of the condom breaking. That's pretty good. Plus, you had your period, so you're fine. You're just nervous and that's why you think you're feeling cramps.
You're not pregnant!! Calm down!! Chances are slim to none!! You need to relax or you will miss your period due to stress and then you will freak even more!!
It doesn't sound like you could be pregnant, but you should take a pregnancy test.
there's a chance the clear discharge is just ovulation. since you started your period 7 days before this happened, you're probably fine. i don't know much about the plan b pill, just remember that is not a good form of birth control. also know that even if a guy pulls out, you can still get pregnant from the pre-ejaculation, which contains sperm. good luck, sounds like there's nothing to worry about.
I don't think you're pregnant. You can start worrying when you don't get your period on time next time you're due. (You can take a pregnancy test 5 days before your next period should start, it is called "First Response")

Anyway, the time a woman is most fertile (or when she is ovulating) is BEFORE her period. When the egg that is released during ovulation is not fertilized, the egg dies, and it causes you to bleed, thus your period starts. If you just barely got done with your period, I don't think you have anything to worry about.

The "spotting" you experienced was probably a result of you having sex. The way I like to put it is your boyfriend "plunged" out the old blood. I know its gross but its the only way to describe it.
u might be pregnant but after your period test your self and see if u are and u shouldnt have had sex with your boyfriend until marriage and even if u love him that doesnt mean he can push u around to do what he wants okay stand up for your self and if u are pregnant tell your mom it is the best way to go and dont have sex again.
If he pulled out before he ejaculated and you took PlanB, you are probably not pregnant. Most condoms have a spermicidal jelly on them to kill any sperm that might come in contract with you should the condom break. I have heard that PlanB can cause break through bleeding and spotting, as its purpose is to empty your uterus from whatever is in there.

My question to you is, what are you doing have sex if you are not ready to handle the consequences? You seem very worried, and not necessarily ready to deal with the aftermath should you ever become pregnant.

While you are probably okay this time, next time you might not be so fortunate. Please consider everything before take such life-impacting risks. Also remember, someday you are going to be with someone who loves you very much. Will you feel comfortable telling him about everything that you have done in your past, including PlanB? If the answer is no, re-evaluate the decisions that you are making. Respect yourself.

This is by no means a lecture - just some friendly thoughts/advice from someone a little more experienced who wishes that she could change some things in her own past.

Best of luck to you.
Well, first of all I am going to tell you that that is the consequence of having sex. And that is the risk that comes from having sex and maybe you should be prepared to accept it.

Now, onto the positive. You have to remember that your body will fight any sperm that enters your body. Still there is that chance...well, my friend, there is also more good news for you. The side-effect of the morning after pill can be spotting which happens about a week after taking the pill (or 6 days in your case). So, chances are it's just because of the morning after pill. You still can't be completely sure. But I am almost positive you are not pregnant. Wait a few more weeks and see if you get your period...chances are you will and you'll be fine...just be more careful, ok?
Look there is a very high chance that some semen got into your Virgina and it does not matter if you had your period or what not or if he pulled out, you can get pregnant from pre come.

it is normal for women who become pregnant to spot so there is a chance that you can be impregnated. you need to go to your doctors and get a blood test, ask to check for everything , they can see if your pregnant through blood work and you can go and get the info without your parents and if you are pregnant your doctor cant tell your parents because it is called doctor patient confidentiality.

you should go get checked even if you have doubts, you rather be safe then sorry.
You know, getting pregnant at a young age is whatever but my goodness don't panick everytime you have sex and come on YouQA.com s asking. Just get a preg. test. Coming on here and asking isn't going to solve anything so go get a test. You may need to take a few more. And if you haven't missed your period yet then shutup and don't worry about it
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