I had sex a week ago and im pregnat and im 18 and im in trouble what do I do?????
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This website offers a section on pregnancy options and non-judgemental decision making:
http://www.abortionusa.com/pregnancy.asp...
They also offer many links to various other organisations.
Good luck :-)
tell your parents. then go over this with them and show that you really are sympathetic.
gat a abortion
About what? I assume you were pregnant prior to last week and having sex ?
Whatever you want to do.
why r u in toruble?? because u are pregnant? are u upset because u are pregnant??
No way! You won't get pregnant after a week of having sex! Are you sure about that? Or you had sex a month ago?
How do you know you're pregnant if you only had sex a week ago?
Now you deal with the consequences. You can either abort, carry the pregnancy to term and put the baby up for adoption, or you can keep the baby for yourself and your partner. It's up to you. If you can't be mature enough to handle the consequences of sex, maybe you'd better think for a long time before you have sex again, even if you are pregnant.
talk to yah parents u shouldnt had sex in the first place :(
Talk it out with your partner, you both try to decide what to do. Break it down to your parents. And be prepared for a life changing experience.
how do you know your prego? i doubt it.
no test would show that soon, silly person
(6weeks ago would be accurate)
tell your mum or doctor but do it quick or you wont have time to make any decision on whether to keep the baby or not.your parents may be shocked at forst but they will help you in the end
Well now you must face the consequences of having sex.
1.) Discuss it with your parents - they'll probably be mad at first, but they'll calm down if you give them time.
Then you have 3 choices:
1.) Abort the baby - not the choice I would recommend as you chose to have sex, but I wouldn't judge you if you choose this
2.) Carry the baby for 9 months and place him/her up for adoption - some are open adoptions where you choose the family your child goes to so you can remain active in their life
3.) Carry the baby for 9 months and raise him/her yourself - given your age it will be difficult, but it's do able, especially if you have help from parents, family members, and friends.
Hope this helps. Good Luck! :-)
It has only been a week, it is too early to tell.
There's no way you can know you're pregnant within a week of having sex. You have to wait at least a week after your missed period before the test is accurate. If you've done a test this soon, you very likely could be getting a false positive. Chill out and wait till the appropriate time and try again. Since you're 18, you can do whatever you feel is best for you if it ends up that you're pregnant. I can almost guarantee you that having a baby will be a thousand times harder than you can even imagine. But that decision is yours alone. Try talking to your parents about it, or someone older who you trust. Someone with a lot of wisdom, maybe a relative or a doctor. Try to get some really solid advice about what you should do. And remember, there are so many married couples out there who are just heartbroken because they can't have kids of their own. In a way, you are very blessed. I hope everything turns out well for you, but you're going to need to keep a cool head and think really clearly about what you want for your future. Good luck. *hug*
First you just need to relax. Then tell your parents (probably you mum first) and ask her to take you to the doctor to see if your positively pregnant it could just be a mistake. Also you might want to talk to the father and see if he is willing to support this baby if not you might want to consider adoption or an abortion. Supporting a baby is hard so you will need to think about child support and school and collage. The first thing you need to do is talk to your parents they might be disappointed at first but soon they will help you through this time don't go through is alone and next time use protection when having sex. Also you might want to speak to a trained coullser
You are one week out from having your first sexual encounter and you KNOW you are pregnant? Somehow I just don't think so. If you are pregnant, you got that way before last week, so now for your options.
1. Tell your parents. Yeah, they may scream, yell, have a fit, but bottom line, they love you and even though an unplanned pregnancy was not in their plans for you, they will adjust and help you figure out what the best plan is for the new path you are on.
2. You can have the baby and keep it, raising it as a single mother. Tough to do, emotionally, physically and financially, but you can do it well if you make the child your sole focus.
3. You can have a abortion.
4. You can have the baby and keep it, raising it with the sperm donor. Also tough, but also doable.
5. Have the baby and give it up for adoption. Also hard, but it is truly the most selfless form of love for the baby - putting your pain, physical and emotional, behind the welfare of the baby.
6. This should probably have been in the number one slot, but go to a doctor and have a blood test done to make sure you are pregnant. Until you have positive proof from the doctor, 1-5 are not important.
Good luck!
Tell your parents. They will hopefully understand.
You carry the baby, get an abortion, carry it and give it up for adoption, or carry it and keep it for you and your partner. Hope I helped :]]
This is going to be the toughest decision that you will probably ever make. DO you want to keep the baby? Its not about you its about the baby that will be brought into this world. You need to ask yourself some really important questions. Are you ready to be a mom? no going out, no being able to do what you want when you want.. Can you afford to have a baby? Is the dad going to stick around? I know from experiance. I had a baby at 20, and it tough. So please do what you think is right, not only for you but fo the baby.
Grow up.
Listen do not worry ok.I have probably the scariest mom alive. She always warned me not to get pregnant. You made a mistake, BUT FOR THE LIFE OF YOU>>DO NOT ABORT!
You would only damage your body, you would be emotionally depressed forever. So tell your parents and keep the baby. There is always help, and you can always go to a counselor to help you with this. Its not the end of the world. Don't do anything stupid.
Whatever you do, dont abort. Recent studies show abortion may increase your risk for breast cancer and leads to life long depression and other problems. Discuss with your parents. and if you cannot keep the baby, there are plenty of couples who want to adopt. Please be safe from here on out and think about your future.
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