I have been having sex with my girlfriend, but she says it hurts?
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There are many causes of painful sex including vaginal or urinary infection, lack of lubrication, tumors, irritants (like spermicide), sexual disease, physical abnormalities, previous surgery, sexual trauma, repair of episiotomy or tear, vaginismus, vulvar vestibulitis, endometriosis, tipped uterus, and skin thickenings that can divide the female opening or injury to the vulva or vagina, such as childbirth, rape or sexual abuse. Chronic pain during sex may be caused by adhesions following episiotomy or plastic repair of the vagina. Endometriosis, vaginitis, pelvic inflammatory disease and radiation therapy sometimes result in chronic painful intercourse due to adhesion formation at the round or broad ligaments, uterus or other structures. You can read more about it here
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She should see her doctor for an evaluation to determine the exact cause.
She needs to see a Dr.
Maybe you should try a little kY jelly and if that still does not help she may need to go be checked out to make sure she does not have something going on inside, sex should not hurt it should be an enjoyable thing.
The most common problem with girls saying it hurts is usually because they are tense. The vagina muscle is tight and thats most likely why when you penetrate her it hurts. Just try to relax her. Give her a massage before, and maybe some foreplay. The pain will go away after a few times.
Or maybe your dick is just too damn big. You might wanna look into penile reduction bro.
i think both of you did the wrong position or the position in which your gf is not comfortable. use lubricant. or you only just have oversized penis as simple as that?
If she recently lost her virginity she may still be 'adjusting'. She may also be nervous and unintentionally tensing her muscles down there. She should just try and relax. I commend you for taking your girlfriends comfort into consideration. Just be gentle. It will get better. If not she should go to the doctor.
It could be the VD you gave her...
your girl needs to go see a dr. she could have a bladder infection or a vaginal infection possibly even an std like chlamdiya best to get tested out i had the same problem once i just had a really bad bladder infection within 7 days with antibiotics it was cleared up so just tell her to go to the docs its probably something minor anyways
* Use lube
* Try different posistions
* Dont enter her all the way
1.first ask about her decision whether she is feeling happy to have sex or not.
becasue no girls like to have sex otherwise they happy.
2.have some good foreplay before involving into sex.
3.concentrate more on sucking.because girls like that more(not clearly known).
4try different positions.
5.do everything until she satisfies.otherwise it leads to failure of entire process.
try it and have fun.
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