Women only! what's your fav. way to masterbate? what works for you? serious answers only please!?
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The first thing you have to do is get over you guilt. I know this can be difficult because it has been planted for years. I don't know for sure but I think the catholic is about the only religion that tells you it is a sin so I assume you are a catholic. I was also at one time so I can relate to what you are going through. The first time I masturbated I could not quit shaking for about an hour I was so scared of what I had done. After that I began to question everything about it - like how can something so good be so bad. Then I found that virtually everyone masturbates, although many will not admit to it. Now research has shown that not only is it natural and normal, but it also has numerous health benefits. So yes it is OK, you can put the guilt behind you, it may take a little while, but you have already started when you say you know it is OK. Believe it or not masturbation in a relationship is not selfish. I think it is an important part of any relationship. Partners can enjoy it as part of their sex play, you can show your partner how to better satisfy, and your partner can do the same. You can use it as a change in your everyday love making routines. I think it is also important for most women as very few of us orgasm from penetration alone, so a little manual stimulation will get you over that last hump. It is also useful at times when your partner is not in the mood for whatever reason. So clear your mind, put your fingers to work, or get some kind of toy, and enjoy yourself along with all the rest of us.
I think it personal time for yourself and it is TOTALLY OK!
And it's actually good that you do that in a relationship b/c then you can tell him what you like! It's great! Enjoy!
I'm old fashioned I still use the hand. But I have used vibrators and they can be great too!
Relax you are normal! I dont care what anyone says we've all done it! ALL OF US!
Get over the hang ups and just enjoy it. I'm Catholic and I do it. What, do you think God will condemn everyone to hell if they do it? I'm thinking God and His saints will be lonely b/c not many will be there.
I have a healthy, happy, sexual life with my husband with a few good kinks on the side (see my recent questions) but I also still own a lovely pink vibrating dildo. So what? I like it and who is it hurting anyway? No one!
Enjoy your life and don't waste it on hangups. I did that for way too many years. My life has just begun!
I'm in a relationship and I do. It's just fine to masturbate, it's your body and you can do what you want with it. Don't think it's wrong, because everyone does it, whether they want to openly admit it or not. If you don't feel comfortable doing it in front of your man, do it by yourself. It's actually very healthy to masturbate. It works your sex muscles (yes, it's true!) and it also makes you feel better. It relaxes you. Now there are a TON of ways to masturbate. You just have to figure out what you like best! Because, if I told you how i did it, you might not like. Every woman is different. Just experiment, experiment, experiment!
I use a dildo I got from pure romance called "daddy from the natti". I have a hard time reaching a vaginal orgasm, but a clitoral orgasm is very easy for me.
I think 95% of females actually do it and about 30% will actually admit to it...
Whatever your religious past may tell you about masturbation, it's a surefire way to protect yourself against STD's and unwanted pregancies!
Strange and sick as it may sound, sometimes I use an old toothpaste pump. Generally, I just use my hand.
In usual conditions,we can feel 5 kind of senses,
eyesight sense,hearing sense,smell sense,taste sense
and touch sense.And we can get a very deep enjoyment of
experience of every thing,when we get all of above senses
together.
One of these experience is Sexuality expreience,you can
get a very deep enjoyment of sexiness experience,when you
involved all of your senses.
In the Masturbation we can just involved one sense(touch sense) of five senses
so we can't rich the other senses and they will get severe strain about enjoyment.
If we can't leave it,it is admissible only with our partner because we can get
some of senses with him or her.
And at the end of this answer,when we can make a real love and sex experience
why do Masturbation.
It doesn't or shouldn't have anything to do with religion. My favorite is my middle finger and a taboo fantasy.and as far as being selfish- my guy loves that i will do it in front of him- nothing turns him on more. I don't do it often in front of him...because when he doesnt see me do it for awhile...he will beg. And just because you do it and climax doesnt mean your done with him...it just prolongs the foreplay...which is the goal right? :)
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