OMG! My uncle walked in on me masturbating and TOTALLY humiliated me?!?
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I'm very sorry to hear that. I know how it feels to be in a situation like that. Your uncle should not have done it to you. You're in a stage where hormones are raging and that's normal. What's not normal is the fact that he humiliated you.
But wait, are you a boy or a girl? If you're a girl, that's ultimate humiliation. If you're a boy, I think it's quite okay. I didn't have the same experience like you before but I think, in your age, that's a sensitive issue.
i am sorry!!
theres really nothin u can do but ask him to not tell any1. time to get over it.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA LMAO THIS IS THE FUNNIEST THING IVE EVER HEARD HAHAHAHAHAHA!
No, he won't be more mature. Go to your restroom next time. Gosh, that is embarassing. Good luck, God, I feel for you girl!
well...im sure he was just giving you a hard time..hah get it? sorry i just had to say it..anyways...i wouldnt worry about it too much he probably wont blab it to everyone...but next time if your gonna do that..don't do it when other people are in the house..thats just commen sense
are u a guy or a girl if u r a girl that so sucks n i would like neva leave my room again yur uncle sounds like a dick if yur a guy stop crying all guys do it
I'm sorry. That is horrible.. Try masturbating when no ones home or in the shower.. or somewhere with a lock! That way you don't have to worry about that happening again. If he continues to make fun of you either ignore it and act like it doesn't bother you or call him a "pervert" and say nothing more. I'm really sorry that happened to you. Hope you feel better now!
-Kari
Hey, he's probably glad no one ever walked in on him when he was yanking his chain... Learn to laugh about it. I just did, sorry, but you have to admit it is funny. Next time do it under the covers where you can at least hide what you're doing from sudden visitors.
dont worry about it. its not like he doesnt do it. play it off like it doesnt bother you.
when you are ready to leave your room just leave as though nothing happened, everybody does it, even your uncle, so dont let him get to you. just move on, you will laugh about it later. but you have to leave your room , the sooner the better. he should of knocked before he went in. if he gives you crap, tell him to f-himself and tell him to get over it,
Well, 21 year old men are definately not mature, as you have learned. Meanwhile, you can go to a hardware store or a place like Home Depot and buy a cheap lock (hook and eye lock, siding lock, etc) that will be easy enough for you to install yourself and will not be expensive. If you're unsure what kind of lock will be inexpensive but effective, ask a worker and they'll be able to help you. I'm sorry about your rude uncle. He sounds like a stupid pig.
Im sure it was just as a freak out for him as well as for you. If I were id be happy because there are a lot of pervs around and from what you said it seemed that he was just trying to lighten up the mood. Ive been walked on too...and it is the most embarrasing thing until a few hours, days, or until the next freak out. Just avoid him till the weirdness disolves
It's normal, and the way you question this, its no big deal so,
what is your problem, other than let the whole world know!! We in Scotland are watching, maybe tell your mom "next"
Sincere regrets, didn't realise you were a girl, sorreeee.
you are right... he should of knock or come back when your door is open.you should of threw something at him.LIKE a LAMP! Maybe, if your pretty open with your Mom.maybe you can talk to her about him and what he did....If not ,he is just going to tease you..or walk in again on you.
hes a pervert
just dont talk to him and give him evil glares
he will get the point that you are angry and maybe he will apologize
and if he doesnt than he isnt worth your time so just ignore him
You poor thing! i strongly suggest the bathroom, probably shower. I used to always use the shower. At least he's cool with it. He could be a complete jerk about it. Although that is mortifying. Hope you feel better soon.
First of all, you will learn that men are basically never mature it doesn't matter how old they are. Especially 21 year old men think they are the $hit but they act so young. This is really embarrassing and it already happened so you can't do much about it. Just try not to feel so bad because it is natural to masturbate and he shouldn't have walked in on you. Eventually everybody will forget about it, in the meantime just come up with some funny remark to say back to him if he tries to bring it up so you can come out on top. But you didn't do anything wrong, he did for violating your privacy! P.S. go to home depot and buy a knob with a lock. maybe you can make it a joke and make him put the lock in for you. ; ) good luck!!
My brother has walked in on me before and I know it is TOTALLY EMBARASSING. But... the way that i look at it: EVERYBODY does it. It is nothing to be ashamed about. Your uncle is just being a typical 21-year-old guy. Next time he starts singing that song tell him hes a super freak for singing that about his niece!
no, 21 yr old BOYS are not mature yet
my brother is 21 and acts immature so i think its a man thing.i am so sorry to hear that btw
OMG I totally feel your pain, just pretend like nothing happened and and you'll both get over it. Oh yah and listen to music really loud so you don't think about too much.
i understand your embarrassment, its a horrible situation but there are worse things. I'm 14 years old too, and my uncle walked in on me and my boyfriend having sex. He is 17 and its was a few months ago. But you learn to forget about it. At first it was really weird around him, but a few weeks later everything was normal again...he even apologized for barging in on us.
you may not realize it now...but its not the biggest deal and everybody does it.
Good Luck =]
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