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The reason you and your bf are finding it difficult to have penetrative sex is probably that you are not aroused enough when you try.
When you become properly aroused, your vagina actually expands and produces its own lubrication, making penetration a lot easier.
If you have any subconscious misgivings or fears about what you are about to do, then your vagina will contract, making it much more difficult - this is often out of your conscious control.
To remedy this, you should both spend more time exploring what actions turn you on, whether that be oral sex from him (make sure he reads up on techniques!), or digital stimulation (him or you touching you). If you have ever managed to give yourself an orgasm through masturbation, you might want to think about what movements got you there, where you preferred to touch, how hard the pressure was etc, and tell and show this stuff to your bf if you feel brave enough. I know it takes guts to be so frank with someone, but I'd really reccomend doing this for the future great sex you two could be having!
Other than the above, a water based lube could also help things along. But the key is to spend a lot more time on foreplay so that you feel relaxed and aroused enough to move on to penetration. Don't give yourselves a time limit or feel selfish about it, just have fun exploring. The results will speak for themselves.
yes that should help
Yes and of course make sure your relaxed and in the mood. If you get too nervous or stressed it can contract the muscles in that area making it even harder so try to make it a fun and relaxing experience! Make him run you a bath or give you a back/body rub first and light candles ;) Good luck doll!
YES IS SHOULD HELP. SAVE SOME MONEY AND SLOB ON IT REAL GOOD. I T WILL MAKE YOU WET AND HIM EXCITED
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