Someone help me please.. is there any way to tighten up?
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thanks in advance
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he may be exxagerating or... it is common that after labor, muscles of pelvic floor get kind of loose, specially if the baby was big or if you experienced a traumatic labor (also, id you had multiple pregnancies). If that was your case and the muscles are too loose, then you may experience urinary incontinence and problems like that. I recommend you to go to gynecologist in order to evaluate you and determine if you are a candidate for a colposcopy ( vaginal reconstruction surgery). In either case, I wish you good luck, and remember that if your man loves you, he would help you to deal with this instead to make you feel guilty or uncormftable. Talk sincerely and tell him how you feel and together, talk about how to resolve it.
kegels are the only way to go. Are you sure he wasn't taking a stab at you, trying to make you feel bad?
Stop having sex for awhile!
" it needs time " Sounds like you have a winner as a mate
If kegels aren't working I think they have surgery that can make you tighter, but that seems pretty extreme. Does your man have a small penis? Maybe its his fault
Try Bellydancing. It was initally developped for vaginal tightening.
yes bigger d**ks can stretch you out... and your b/d could have just been being an *** but yea kegels help and unless youre planning on sleeping w/ other ppl besides ur regular partner dont worry about it
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