Has anyone had hymen surgery to replace there virginity?
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No. I have not had hymen surgery and I never will!
I wish you wouldn't either. The hymen has NOTHING to do with whether you are a virgin. Your hymen can be gone for years before you ever had sex.Being a virgin means that you have not had sexual relations with another person (male or female) before.
I understand that you are from a different culture that has a high value on being a virgin until you are married but you need to know about this and your husband should know this too: MOST women do not tear and bleed much the first time they have sex and most often are not affected at all their first time.
virginity is a "idea" not a physical thing that you can get back... if you have had sex its gone for good
Hymen replaced or not, you are no longer a virgin and that is a fact. You have had sex, live with it.
I'm glad my culture doesn't care. u should get it done at least a month or two before so it will heal and look natural. That doesn't make any sense that they're basing virginity on the hymen. i was born with hardly any hymen..
virginity has to do with sex once you have it your virginity is gone forever
1. No I haven't
2. Virginity isn't determined by the hymen being in place, it's lost by having sex.
3. the hymen can be lost riding a bike or doing many other things other than sex.
Wow, good luck.
I would hope you could stand up for yourself and say it's none of your family's business and you shouldn't need to have it done.
If your future spouse doesn't care, why involved the family at all? Unless you want the family to control the rest of your life.
If your future spouse doesn't know, then you probably shouldn't be marrying them. Why marry someone you can't be honest with?
Personally I think it's is IMMORAL for a virgin to marry, and I'm a minister. You should know what life is about or you can't in good conscious realize what kind of commitment you are making to someone.
Sex is part of life and part of being with a partner (for most people.) Virginity is overly focused on in some religious societies.
i understand wut u mean my culture has the same issue about sex after marriage and that the female must be a virgin at the time of marriage anywyas u can get it whenever u want and if the guy is a virgin he will nto notice the difference. the onyl thing is that u will ahev to live with the fact that ur living a lie if u can bare that then ur all set to go u cna get it whenever u want its better sooner then later jsut dont have sex after the surgery until after ur married or it will b noticable again
Repairing your hymen will NEVER replace your virginity.
Once you've lost it, it's gone forever.
Your husband won't care if you're not a virgin. Most women aren't. You're only kidding yourself and lying to everyone by having this silly surgery done. Someone will find out. Liars are always found out.
You're wasting your money. Use it for something more worthwhile like college.
im sorry but how are your parents gonna find out?
what the other people said is true ...once your virginity is gone it is gone.that said i truly hope your future husband would not be discussing your sex life with your family...this si no longer the dark ages.women have rights and we are below no man(figuatively speaking that is ). if you want to fool him schedule your wedding to coincide with your menstrual cycle starting he'll never know.
How will anyone know whether it is broken or not. The Hymen can be broke by inserting a tapon not just by having sex.
your virginity can never be replaced kid,
i understand your concerns of a cultural nature and have been told of on a girls wedding night, a piece of chicken liver and blood inserted in the vagina will give the same effect as the expensive, painful, dangerous surgery you are considering, your husband to be need never know, your family will definately know if the surgery is unsuccessful or goes wrong.
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