She says "Too Much" during sex?
Question:
I have a question I've scoured the internet to find an answer to, but with little success. My fiance and I have a great sex life, and she often will orgasm 3 times to my one. Sometimes we have extended periods of foreplay beforehand, and other times only a few minutes. Once we get into the actual sex, it can last from between 20 minutes to 45 before I orgasm with her. We have a few number of usual positions, but we almost always end up with her on top. After about 10-15 minutes of activity, that number becomes more limited because she says 'it's too much' - eg, the stimulation in a certain position is overwhelming or too intense. Most of the time while we are having sex, she stimulates herself with her hand, and says that without that, the sensation is too intense.
My question is, could her self-stimulation over-stimulate her in the long run and make it 'too much' for certain positions? Has anone else experienced this? Could my size or shape influence this condition? Thnx
Answers:
In my opinion, I don't fell that her self stimulation is overstimulating her and making is difficult for her to proceed in certain positions. When my fiance and I get it on, I self stimulate constantly, however me on top and one other particular position make me very uncomfortable because things are being rubbed too hard and makes the good feeling go bye bye, lol. I think this is perfectly normal, I would just stick to any position she finds comfortable unless she wants to try the other positions in a new way, kinda. Your size and shape probably have nothing to do with it, it's just these crazy girl bodies of ours being difficult, lol!
My best guess is that the "too much " sensation she is referring to is pain rather than pleasure and that the self stimulation is her way determining when the sex act actually ends. In spite of the length of time that you're doing the deed , your fiance is not deriving the pleasure that you think she is and thus she needs to take matters in hand. Sorry
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