I can only seem to have an orgasm with oral sex, what are we doing wrong?
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Yes, youo probably are thinking about it too much, typically a killer for women. Don't fake it, that doesn't help anyone. I would suspect that the BF is rushing through things. This is a common thing for men. You might need to tell him to linger longer at a point where it feels good. Also, men tend to reach their climax quicker, so he will need to put more time in to you during foreplay to get you closer to your orgasm before he begins, if you know what I mean.
you're doing nothing wrong..just keep up the oral and call yourself lucky.
A lot of women have this problem, have you thought about bringing toys into the mix? I hear that works well.
You need more clitoral stimulation during sex. I suggest a pocket vibrator.
You are normal. Don't fake it. Most women cannot have an orgasm through sexual intercourse alone. Having an orgasm for most women requires manual or oral stimulation to the clitoris.
YES, YOU DO HAVE A PROBLEM.
You started faking it.
Try being on top. don't feel self conscious. just do what feels good and he'll enjoy it too. if your tense about it you won't be able to relax enough to climax. Being on top will help provide the closest contact. just rock the boat!!
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