I've never had an Orgasm-Help!?

Question:

I've read and read about having an orgasm, but i can't for the life of me! I have felt close to it, but only if I'm on the ephone with my boyfriend, but then i stop...and its like 'thats it?' I have had sex twice and touch myself everynight, but I don't! I want it more when I'm masterbating, but i can't! I even get bord with masterating, i don't think its gross, but i just get bord, like I its not stimulating b/c I'm the one doing it! If I'm on the phone with my b/f and we have ahd phone sex, and I have come real close, but only if i hear him comming...then its too late, b/c if he comes..i stop...if he does comee, i start.so i never reach the point! Sometimes I think maybe I have and just don't know, like my body is like...'ok' but He says I will know if I do! I wanna know, how can I? Pleaese don't give a website or say only I ca discover it. Actually tell me something, or don't say anything b/c you'll be wasting my time!

Answers:
Don't be stressed out over it. Anxiety won't help you one bit, and will only make it more difficult to attain it. Instead, approach moments of intimacy with your b/f with tenderness and affection not even thinking of orgasm. Feelings of love for one another will help tremendously. Go into a lovemaking position where his penis rubs against the roof of your vagina 2 to 2-1/2 inches down, or ask your b/f to rub that spot with one or two fingers after some foreplay. He must know exactly what to do when you are into it - no on-the-job instructions. The rewards will be ecstatic. This has never failed me!

Relaxxxx...enjoy it.

how old are you?

Some women do not experience orgasm in the sense of feeling their pelvic floor muscles contract. They do however reach a peak of arousal after which they feel very relaxed and contented, the same feelings other women experience after orgasm. By contrast, women who get very aroused and do not experience orgasm will sometimes feel "nervous" or "edgy" or even an aching discomfort in their pelvis.

keep practicing .
two time is not very much. so good luck

there are old women who have never orgasmed, or at least never w/ a man. :( sad but true. while some women *** quick & easy, most don't.

i can tell you what works for me, but it may not work for you honey. plus, i'm married, so, i'm allowed to have orgasms. you, on the other hand ... well, sorry to waste your time, but ... truth is ... you shouldn't know what one is anyway.

Ok, your boyfriend is right trust me you will know for sure when you have one!! And youll love it, but you need to get together, spend time having him explore you. let him find the right spot on your body that will achive your orgasm, take your time try not to get frustrated, cause that will make it take longer, keep your mind on him and the way he makes you feel. when you get there youll be happy that you took your time trust me, good luck!

Oh please!!!!! If you get bored while doing it...something's wrong! You are probably a sinner and He won't let you have one! Then again, maybe you don't know how your body works...try a shower massager or go buy a vibrator for those "aching muscles"!!

If you are getting bored, my guess is that you aren't aroused or stimulated enough. you have to figure out what turns you on, videos, reading erotic material, having your boyfriend on the phone keep talking about what's happening so you can visualize it, what he wants to do to you, etc.

You may be afraid to lose control. Consider a hand-held back massager you can get at your local drug store. Or even a hand held shower massager.

I know what works for me u can have him lick u and the he can insert his finger or the other thing tell him not to *** until u do expierence and take time to do it u will know when u have a orgasm because u will be very wet like something just exploded, very weak afterwards and your muscles down thier will contract like a thump beating kinda sort thing. and then u will be very happy!

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