I kno this isnt the right catergory to ask this in but i think you girls wuld answer it better here .plz help?
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that's normal (how old are you?) I'm just asking because it happens a lot with younger couples. you can have crushes but the main thing is how you handle them. and the famous saying is that its OK to look but never touch!! hope this helps~~~good luck~~~
That's perfectly normal to feel that way. I did, even though I was married for 30 years to the same man. I would see someone good looking and daydream about him for a while. But, then I realized I have a good man now, so why mess it up?
It's normal to have crushes on other men when you're with someone else. I'm married and it happens to me all the time. Don't worry about it unless the feelings for another guy becomes more serious. You are dating, you aren't dead.
yeah thats normal, guys ALWAYS wonder what it is like to be with another woman, just dont cheat on him.
don't marry him when you are with the right one no one else will matter not even in the least, but you already know this because you ask the question now you've admitted it to yourself!
when you truly love someone you only see that person and no one else, you would not think about taking a break or having a little crush on someone else. Don't get me wrong you will see attractive people around but it will not affect you in any bashful way. you will only compliment their looks or their beauty and not more than that. Good luck, but I can honestly say you are not yet in love with him, you have love for him. The other guy just not come around yet, the way you are talking if that other guy come around before you truly fall in love with him you will sing a whole new different song.'
take care,
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ok you are young and you should live first..so dont settle too soon,you are NOT ready for any serious commitments just now.Personally I think its not fair for boyfriend,talk to him you need more freedom but you love him,it has nothing to do with him but all these little feelings inside of you are coming out sooner or later...you have to tell him you are not ready for this steady relationship and if he is your friend aswell he UNDERSTANDS
I think gynodoc hit the nail on the head. When you have the real thing and are totally in love you will not have this questions. It sounds silly i know. I feel like you may be kind of young. I though i was in love several time before I finally fell head over head in love and believe me there was not another man on this planet at this time. I married him and were still very happy after 20 years.
Even you thinking about dating other guys...maybe you should talk to him about it.he may be having the same feelings...
Little crushes now and then are normal but fade away soon and just pass by but thinking about it a lot..and you really dont want to get to committed until your sure. Marriage is a long time committment so make sure you both and ready and head over heals!
Hope this helps. Tried not to be mean and make a point (smile)
By the way, it wouldnt make you a bad person if you felt you needed to break up...life happens...and sometimes you gotta roll with the punches.
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