Is there a birth control out there that will increase my sex drive?!?
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Try some foreplay. Watch some porno's together, that will excite you. Give him a BJ. After you put the baby to sleep, slip into something sexy, put on some soft music and lite some candles and put out a blanket out and have a glass of wine. If you find yourself not interested in sex any more, your husband will stray. So you need to be adventurous to keep the spark alive. And by the way it's normal to feel this away after a baby, your not alone.
Birth control sucks. I have tried 3 diff pills and all of them took my sex drive away.Maybe ask your ob-gyn : /
One side affect of the raised hormone levels is a possible drop in your libido. if this very serious, talk to your doctor or ob/gyn if you can possibly take a lower dose of your birth control.
give yourself some time. it took 9 months to have that baby. your sex drive will come back when you are more rested. a 4 month old baby is still an infant. don't rush. your husband loves you that's why you had a baby. if you are really worried try getting a sitter overnight. that way you can take a nap to rest up. then you can call hubby and start things by flirting a little. make a dinner date. come home light some candles and snuggle maybe it will lead to more. you probably don't fell sexy due to the baby body you still have. rest assured if you work on it you will be fine.
I know this is going to sound weird but after I had my daughter I was on Depo then i went on the patch. Neither did anything for my sex drive. But to help lose the weight I was using TrimSpa and that made me hornier than a jack rabbit. My boyfriend couldnt keep me off of him. Was bad enough that he had to sleep in the living room. But also you just had a baby too though. Give it some time. You will get back into it..
Try Elexa condoms. Guys like them plus they're designed by women.
maybe you put the ring in wrong and thats y it was so painful. i am on loestrin fe24 and i havent lost my drive
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