Is this consider sexual assualting?
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YES! It is absolutely sexual assault. Being forced to do ANYTHING sexual, regardless of whether it is oral or vaginal or otherwise is sexual assault. It may not seem violent, but it is a traumatic experience and certainly cause problems in sexual relationships later in life.
You are not over-reacting. You have every right to believe that you were sexually assaulted because you were!
As far as problems in your current relationship, you should speak to a counselor, especially if you have access to a rape counselor.
it is rape! our stupid court system would call it sexual assault. that guy would be dead right now if i were you.
Hunny he forced you to do a sexual act on him.. regardless of whether it was intercourse or not.. THAT WAS RAPE!'
Report that sorry **** excuse of a human being to the police and send him off to jail cause next time.. he may get worse...
You are not overrating.. speak to the police NOW
Yes this was sexaul assult and a bunch of other things. You should consider getting some counseling for this.
it definately IS,,,,,,get counseling and report it,, he may do it to others if he already hasnt.
Although it could be considered sexual assault, I would re-evaluate your actions at the time. Just because you regret it now doesn't mean you weren't that against it then. I only mention this possibility because car doors unlock from the inside. You could have simply gotten out and started walking, regardless of if it was dark.
Yes, that is considered sexual assault. Whenever someone performs sexual acts on you or makes you perform sexual acts on them, whether they do it in a violent manner or not, it is considered sexual assault (unless there was vaginal/anal penetration and then it could be considered rape, which is a form of sexual assault). If YOU consider it sexual assault, it IS. Anytime you don't want to do anything of a sexual nature, and you are forced to it is sexual assault.
Being sexually assaulted or molested can absolutely affect your relationships, both sexually and emotionally, and if this bothers you, to the point that it's affecting your relationships, I encourage you to go a few sessions to a therapist or counselor to help you resolve these issues once and for all.
Sexual assault is any type of sexual contact that you did not consent to or were forced into. Period.
And what part of trapping you in his car and forcing you to have oral sex ISN'T violent? Yes, you were assaulted, and yes, you have every right to feel upset or have trust issues about sex.
Go talk to a counselor. They can help you work through these feelings and heal yourself.
It was sexual assult and it was partly rape. i call it force rape, because he made you do something you didn't want to do.
You should have reported him because it was definatly sexual assult. I'm sorry to hear, and might i say you're very lucky. He could have went the extra mile with or without your conscent.
Don't ever let anyone tell you that someone forcing you to do something you don't want to do isnt harrassment or asult, because it is.
Take care, and im sorry to hear about your current relationship. Hopefully you can get close to your boyfriend and try to get passed that image everytime you and your boyfriend are sexually active so that you can enjoy instead of reflect apon what happened somewhat years ago.
xx
yes it was assulting. U should of gone to the police station and got a report. Its wrong!!
That is definitely rape! If it was less than 7 years ago, you are still within the statute of limitations. That means you can still file a police report and have him arrested. Send him to jail so he he can get orally assaulted!
Yes! It's sexual violation via unlawful sexual connection. It's equivalent to rape. He can go to prison for that! Get him arrested so he doesn't do it to anyone else! A person who would force you to perform a sexual act on him, isn't going to stop at that.
Girl, I would of bit his stuff then send my foot through his window and got the h3ll out.for reals. Thats rape sweetie. Im sorry that happened to you. Then I would of told my crazy uncle ^^ use your imagination.
YES IT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT
He forced you to perform a sexual act against your will - it is definitely sexual assault. Do not ever allow someone to force you to do anything sexual that you don't want to do. Why don't you find out from the police what the statute of limitations is for sexual assault. Do you want him doing this to other women? I think that you might want to consider stopping him.
Yes it is sexual assault. Though, going to the police and pressing charges wouldn't do much. Your case would probably not win and it's not worth the money on the lawyer. I'm sorry to say that. There is lack of physical evidence especially since it was quite a while ago. He could easily say you wanted it or deny the event ever took place. A judge will only really take into account actual evidence instead of a witness statement. Perhaps if he had done this to many other woman you could all press charges. The probability of winning the case with many victims is high.
Consider getting counseling. It's not that difficult. And as it is effecting your relationship, maybe you should talk it out with your boyfriend and tell him your feelings. I'm sure he'll be there for you.
If you do want to press charges try to make him pay for a therapist. But, in any case you should talk to a lawyer about this. Your counselor will help with the lawyers and court hearings.
No means NO and you said no and he refused to take you home and coerced you into doing that (i assume you were scared because it was dark and you wanted to go home) then it is rape. It is that simple. I'm sorry that happened to you. It has happened to many of us. It isn't something that you could really prove in court, but yes it is sexual assault/rape. it doesn't have to be intercourse to be rape-there was still sexual penetration involved..just orally.
yes that is a form of rape!!!! you were sexually assulted!!! and you were forced to do something against your will. and it might be affecting your current relationship. maybe you dont like to give your b/f oral for example becasue of it or something. does your b/f know about this experiance? and if he dosent maybe you should tell him and then he might understand whatever aspects you think this is affectin your relationship with him, and honey if this sitll bothers you after all this time you really should go talk to a counsouler and try to work it out. there are rape counsiling centers and places that help at no charge and are trained to help you.
what that boy did you was a crime !!!!
it is sexual assult but with it being so long back i dont think that there is legally anything you can do about it! put it this way, i was raped at gun point by 2 men, and they never even spent 1 night in jail. why? i dont know. maybe you should seek some counceling. and talk to your boyfriend about it. if he truely loves you, and cares for you, he will be understanding, and try and help you get past this... good luck. also, if you ever want or need someone to talk to, you can email me anytime thru here!
I'm sorry to hear what happened to you. Yes, that was absolutely a criminal sexual assault and he could have (should have) been prosecuted and sent to prison for it. If it's affecting your relationship with your current boyfriend, you should seek counseling for it... talking about it should help you work through your feelings and put it behind you.
it is assault b/c you didn't want to do it and he made you--bottom line
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