Oh my god. I'm pregnant. I'm only 13! Help!!?
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OMG im ur age and would never do that!! u have2 tell ur parents b/c u know they'll find out one way or another. b/c ur pregnant ur parents will yell at first but then calm down and try to help. the best way is to talk it out. jus make sure u never do that again!!
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they are gonna find out eventually. might as well get it over
Your just gonna have to tell ur parents they will find out anyways. I knwo is scary for you but a good thing to do is tell your parents. Does the guy know??And pray good luck! you can go to planed parenthood. go to yellowpages and search for planned parent hood clinics in your area you dont need your parents their.
u wont be able to hide it from them.the only thing u can do is tell them.
You are going to have to do something. You had better tell your parents, & see a doctor because they are going to figure it out soon enough. I know its scary. But if you want the baby to be healthy, you had better see a doctor soon. If you dont then you will have even bigger problems.
You have to see a doctor. Check into Planned Parenthood centers or the health department. See what they can do...but your Parents will eventually find out!
if your old enough to have sex your old enough to deal with the responsibilites that come with having sex
Obviously they're going to find out sometime. It's much better to tell them now before other people start noticing, then you have to worry about them talking to your parents, too. There are consequences for things, no matter how much you regret doing it. If you're old enough for sex, you're old enough to deal with the consequences. And yes, you need to see a doctor, get to sitting down with your parents, or find a clinic. It's scary, but you're going to have to face it sometime. Sit or lay down and go over what you need to do, and do it quick. You need to be an adult if you're going to raise a kid. And please don't even consider abortion. At the very least, put them up for adoption. You still have a lot of life ahead of you, so keep strong and get through what you need to do.
Yea, first of all suck it up and tell your parents. It's hard but you have to. You also have to see a doctor imediately. If you are planning to have this child then you need to step up and take care of it and deal with this situation. It's time to grow up and start now being a parent. You could be jeapordizing your child by not going to the doctor.
sorry to hear it but its completely your fault. abortion is definitely not the answer. welp, ummm you need to talk to your parents. its your fault for having sex. im 13 and i have nvr had sex and im proud of it. i have respect for my body and i would never do something like that until i am married. you should go through it and not go to school. only tell your best friends if anyone. this is serious and it is a lesson for you to learn to never do something so stupid ever again.
What can we do?
You messed up your own life.
Your gonna have to tell your parents sooner or later.
You waited to long because now they might be mad..
Theres nothing you can do other than an abortion.
You have a mature writing style for a 13 y.o. Anyway, your parents are going to find out anyway. Its in your and the baby's best interest to just tell them now. God bless.
ok obviously you need some help darling. just tell your parents! i cant believe you had sex. i am 13 and would never even THINK about having sex anytime soon. so i'm guessing you didn't use a condom?
try going to the planned parenthood center in your town. if you dont have one then they have a hot line and a website. but my best suggestions would be to just use a condom. and if you go to planned parenthood they give away free ones.
well first of all tell your mom asap...the longer you weight the harder its going to be..if your in the car with her or something just say i have something to tell you..write her a note.just tell her.she will help you...,..you do need to see a doctor soon....good luck with everything
you're right your life is ruined and its nobody fault but your own, so who do you expect to pay for this baby, your parent's or us tax payers?
Your life is not ruined!
You are going to have to tell your parents at some point; sooner rather than later. If it helps, ask another adult to be there with you when you tell them (clergy person, school counselor, etc).
Adoption is an option for you--there are so many couples out there who really, really want babies and can't have them.
You need to be brave and face this, because it isn't going to go away.
You can still go to school. You can still be a nurse. You have your whole life ahead of you. But you now have a responsibility to take care of first.
you have to tell your parents, it's better now than when your 18, that would really ruin your life, now by the time you go to college, kid'll be 5, you can leave him with a babysitter or grandparents. It's not the greatest thing but your lifes not ruined. There's much worse than that, I've been to the death huts in africa, I've seen people at war and starve to death. Your parents are going to freak out but don't let them make you think it's all over and life stinks, you got miles to go kid. Good luck and hey, congradulations. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise.
wow im sorry but dat would make a bangin movie
he shoulda wore a condom
Go to planned parenthood-you can go alone! You really need to tell your parents though. You need the support right now. I'm glad you aren't choosing abortion, however, there is always adoption if that's what you want. Let me tell you..I have gone through a lot in my time & I'm 29 years old & I will finish nursing school next month! Your life is definitely NOT ruined..you can still do ANYTHING you want to do..It will just be a little bit harder without help. Please tell your parents very soon..that baby needs prenatal care & good nutrition to develop correctly. You owe it to both of you to see a doctor right away!
Good luck.
WHAAAAAAAAAA! I'm 13 ,2!!
well intsead of being non supportive
here's what u can do!:
1.u can tell ur parents! their going 2 find out ! believe me
2. go to a local clinic wit a friend about 18 or 16 and see a doctor!
3. tell the guy about the kid!
4. tell the truth! and i wish the best 4 u and ur baby!
Tell your parents. They'll be upset and shocked and everything, but they won't kill you. They're going to find out soon anyway. And they can help you get the best care for you and your baby.
Well, first of all, drinking and being at those types of parties is wrong to begin w/, and if your parents allowed it, then they should be ready for the news...you have to tell them, because the baby needs vitamins, and proper care while inside you...although it is scary, what's done is done, and now you need to deal with making sure you and the baby is healthy.
Please talk to your parents tonight...they will be upset, but they will want to make sure you are okay, so it will eventually work out. Hopefully this has taught you a huge lesson that maybe you can pass on to your friends and child...
Stay calm & talk to your mom/dad or a doctor.
The baby is not gonna go away now, its already there. Everybody makes mistakes and you can still live your life. Try to find a planned parenthood center in your area, just look it up in the phonebook or online and they will help you talk to your parents. You need to tell somebody now though because keeping it to yourself can be dangerous. Your not the first 13 year old to get pregnant and the doctor will understand. Now, your parents, they might freak out, but whatever happens they will always love you. No matter what. Everything will be fine, I promise.
Xoxo!
your going to have to tell you parent's there going to no sooner or later. or tell someone close to u. good luck.
Thanks for not getting an abortion! That's a real person in there! You need some good help, go to the Doctor at a clinic...tell your parents...own up to what you did. It will be the right start to a better life for you! Jesus Loves YOU! Hey, Do the right thing..The child is depending on YOU. I am a Nurse, you can still go to school.and be one to! God Bless You!
PS>>Planned Parenthood is a SHAM! They will talk you into an abortion!!!!! Just wait and see!! Death to the Baby. Will that solve all your problems???
first of all, a 13 year old shouldn't be having sex. you need to tell your parents, they're going to find out anyway. apparently you thought you were mature enough to have sex now you should be mature enough and deal with the consequences.
Oh dear! I'm not going to tell you you're stupid- however I am going to suggest you see a doctor straight away. See your school counceller and she'll pass you on to someone! You're only 13, way way too young to have a baby. If you want to have this baby then as you said, it's going to be tough at school! I'm afraid one of your only options is to have an abortion! You're too young and you can't handle it at your age! You must make your decision as soon as possible. However, If I were in your shoes, an abortion would be my best option and I know it doesn't sound bright, but to be fair you won't be able to handle it. Many teenagers have kids at a young age and have coped through their parents, so if you think your parents will be supportive then do what you think is right. Just please talk to someone now.
Well this wouldn't have happened if you hadne't had sex!!The only thing to do is tell your parents I'm your age and if I were you I would write them a letter cuz it would be really hard to say it with words...Its your fault not to be rude or anything but just because he's cute **shakes head**you should have thought about that good-luck with the letter
So are you going to hide the baby from them when it comes?
Kind of hard to do that.
Tell them NOW!
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