The first time have sex? please help?
Question:
Does it hurt your first time have sex do you bleed? thankyou so much!
Answers:
Well, hopefully whoever's your first time is experienced or atleast will try and make it less painful for you.
The reason is almost always painful first timers, is because your body has never experienced anything penetraiting the vaginal opening before. That's what intercourse does.
If you think about it; a male's part is quite big for the female's opening, so you can imagine how it could hurt. If you use a lot of lubricant, that can ease the pain but it'll still feel weird obviously since you've never experiecned intercourse before.
The reason you bleed is because when having intercourse for the first time, the hymen in the women is penetrated by the male, which means the hymen is broken or torn, therefore it bleeds. Which is normal.
So just take your time, and don't rush things, and you'll be fine.
REMEMBER PROTECTION! =]
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yes it hurts a little the first time and yes you may bleed a little bit but you will be ok and it will all pay off in the end
it does hurt the first time you do have sex, but it's not like the pain people usually describe. when i had sex for my first time, i bleed a little, i bleed the first few times i had sex. there is no need to worry though.
good question i would like to know too
Honestly, it hurts. You should save yourself for the right guy. I bled for 4 hours after my first time. Then I bled after intercourse everytime for the first month or so.
Every woman is different when it comes to how she feels during sex for the first time. The bleeding comes from having your hymen broken (a little thin layer of skin in your vagina). However, not everyone has their hymen in tact by the time they have sex the first time. The hymen can be broken long before you have sex the first time by using tampons, riding a bicycle, horseback riding, or gymnastics, so you might or might not bleed. I didn't bleed the first time I had sex. It can be pretty painful to have sex the first time because the muscles are tight and not used to being stretched like that. Just take deep breaths and try to be as calm and relaxed as possible...when you are tense, it tenses up the muscles, which make it more painful. You will loosen up after the first few times...just have your partner go really slow and you can stop if it gets too painful. Lubricated condoms can make it a little easier, as well as using store bought lubrication...just be sure it's water based and not oil based (it will say on the label)...oil based lubes can break the condom down and cause little holes to form in it. It hurts the first few times, but it does get much better :) Hope this helps.
everyone is different. in my case it didnt really hurt and didnt bleed at all
There can be pain when the hymen breaks upon penatration. There can also be some blood.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
When you're turned on, the uterus and cervix rise, lengthening the vaginal tube. When his penis penetrates, the walls of the vagina stretch to accommodate the difference.
For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubericated, like the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.
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