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Question:

well me and my girlfriend have been having sex, we have a couple of times, but i am young im only 16 and she's 17. now it has noting to do with me being concerned abut std's cuase she doesnt have any. its more like im concerned abut pregnancy, we have used condoms all the times, (she has no way of getting birth control) i just dont even want to risk it, i can tell that she wants to especially lately, i feel stupid saying no cuase i do want to do it, im just so concerned with pregnancy. ik that i will end up doing it even before marrige, i guess my question is has anyone felt this way too.

Answers:
Its just the kind of thing that comes with having sex before your ready to have it. You may be physically able to enjoy it, but your not ready in other areas of your life, so it affects the way you feel about it.

Once your ready to deal with all aspects of sex, it will get better.

GET A LIFE NUTTER

just make sure you use a condom everytime. if you dont have any condoms available have oral sex instead.

Yes ..I have have ..You can either A) Abstain..or B) Right before you are about to ejaculate..Hold your penis at the base with the condom on and pull out. this is called "the pull out" this technique can ease some worry but you still need to be concerned about the condom breaking and sliding off ..there is no 100% way to not to let any of your sperm buddies slide in..unless you just arent doin it.

ya man, i know how u feel...its normal

First off.she has ways of getting birth control. She can go to a free clinic and they can get it to her for barely nothing. Also, using condoms is very smart. Especially if there is no other birthcontrol.

Yes every one feels like that. She can get birthcontrol if she goes to a planned parenthood center. But it sounds like you aren't really ready to have sex yet. Good Luck I hope i helped

Good for you for feeling this way. Not many young guys think as clearly of the consequences as you do. I know two women who got pregnant using a condom so it's possible. Yes, as others mentioned, she can go to a clinic and get free birth control pills. Don't have sex if you aren't ready.

my question is...how does she have NO WAY of getting birth control?
there are planned parenthood clinics everywhere and it usually only costs $10 for a month perscription and they don't tell your parents about it.

just go to google.com and search planned parenthood and find a clinic in your area. seriously its a life saver!

There are some birth control that does not make you gain weight. I never gained weight on birth control pills.

You can buy spermicide to use with the condoms.

It's normal to worry about pregnancy to some degree. Just don't let it consume your life.

Normal.keep using a condom, no matter want, best way to avoid pregnancy (after abstinence).

Oral is a good way to keep entetained also...

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