How to bring up using KY?
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just say this
"hey babe, you know, i was reading in one of my magazines recently that using KY can really enhance everything you feel during sex and I think I would be interested in trying that out."
or... you could just buy a small bottle and when you 2 are about to hook up, pick up the bottle, smile at him and say " I thought maybe we could try something new"
guys really like it when a girl just comes out and says what they want in bed. most guys just want to know that they are pleasing the girl they are with and if he knows that will make you happy...then chances are he isnt going to argue.
just say:
lets use lube.
just tel him..lube it or loose it ..simple as that..comminucation is key in everything ..if hes pissed or upset i suggest a new boyfriend
Just ask him to use it because he's so big it hurts, This way he will feel better about himself and it will be much easier on you.
KY doesn't help with you being tight, it helps with you being dry, if intercourse is painful for you because you are dry, try it. At any rate, all you have to do is tell him that since he is kind of large for you to take, you may want to try some lubrication to make sex more pleasurable for you!!
Just say, " Wanna Lewis n Clark my pooper?"
tell him. tons of women need it. make sure you are using a water-based lube WITH condoms. oil based lube breaks down latex condoms.
If he won't, I will. I kid, I kid. But congratulations on being tight like man's anus. Good job. That seems to be a dying trend these days.
just let him know you want to, im sure he wont mind
You don't NEED to ask. Just tell him it's uncomfortable and you need some lubrication or he's not getting any. If he refuses, shut him off - then you'll see how fast he comes home from the store with a bag full of lube. One suggestion, skip the KY, it's messy and doesn't smell very good. Try Astro Glide, it lasts longer, you only need a little and it doesn't smell as bad.
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