confused.......with my sexuality......?
im very young......13......and im..........bisexual........i dont wanna tell mi parents......because their all christian..........im just breaking down! i know its wronge..........i tried to stop it!.........it just wont go away.........im in love with a girl for the first time! i know its love....... my father is gay and they kicked him out of the house for the way he was......i just dont want the same to happen to me........ooo and this girl lives in california........and im in texas......... im thinking of running away to be with her............should i get up and leave? or stay.......completely held in.........and not able to express my true feelings? i love her so much.............if any answers......please help me........
Are Board markers safe for health?
Answers:
Sweetie, you are confused. Things were so different when I was your age. Children were sheltered from the "lifestyle choices" you are facing. I was born a girl, so I was a girl. No wondering or choices to make.
You are too young to leave home for any reason. Don't run away baby. Bad things will happen to you. How will you support yourself? You more likely than not will end up on the street selling yourself to survive. This has happened to hundreds of children your age both male and female. They often end up on drugs too to cope with their suffering. They fall prey to all the perverted individuals out there just looking to abuse them.
Sorry about what happened with your father. There must have been other issues you don't know about. Let that be between your parents.
It might help you to know that many young people experience an attraction to the same sex at some point. While I never had that experience, I have studied child development and in my study I learned that it is considered normal and not necessarily an indicator that a youth is gay. Feelings may be confused with hormones and admiration.
With your homelife in turmoil, you want an escape and being gay to justify running away to California seems a good option, but it is not.
You say your family is Christian. Sometimes Christians are very moralistic and forget to love in trying to follow the word of God. I have a gay cousin. I don't approve of his lifestyle and have told him so, but we are very close. I pray for him. I love him. Surely, there is someone openminded enough in your faith community to listen to your feelings. There are teen organizations that can help you too. Call a national teen hotline. Look in your directory and/or call the operator for the number. They are there 24/7 and are experts in dealing with all types of teen problems.
Whatever you do, don't run away.
Give yourself time to grow up safely and then make your choices. God loves you and he will make a way for you. Talk to him. Being raised in a Christian household, you know about prayer. Just tell him what you've said here. He will answer in a way you can understand. It won't be a voice, but answers will come to you. I promise.
Stay at home. Stay safe. Talk to God and try the teen hotline.
My prayers are with you.
why is it that most people judge others by how they look?
You are too young to run away, and you don't have to tell them, be discreet...you will tell them when the right time time comes, when you are ready to be on your own.
More Questions and Answers
- I got a new king bed, why did I feel so tired this morning?
- Does it hurt to be bit by a brown recluse spider, I mean would it be like a bee sting?
- moscow hospital number 14?
- Can depression cause diseases?
- what do you think would be the consequences of legalizing marijuana?
- Could the nucleous of wHO YOU are be changed?
- should i blame the cats?
- Does Sex feel good?