Is it normal to feel this way?

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Here's my story - Common law for over 7 years. Feel dead. Not myself! Just want to take off to nowhere land and have the best sex of my life with whoever! I want to feel free and alive again. Anyone else feel this way? Or just me? HELP

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Sammy, this is an emotional need, generated in our brains, more than anything else. The feeling of emptiness, unbearable routine, the craving for excitement, for the huge uplift of a new love.
It is a chemical/ biological fact that we are generating such special hormones in our brains when a new relationship is formed.yet once it is established, within a year or two it is downhill, and downhill only.. as if nature is driving us to look for new relationships.. the only thing that can bring back that feeling is a fresh, exciting new one..this is how we are built, not your fault, not your partners fault. Life is ..just what it is. :)

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I can't say that I do, im not that desperate.

i feel like that every day lucky your a girl cause you wont have trouble getting sex good luck with it all no problem

ya know. i think alot of people do. i have in relationships before i can tell ya that much. but the one thing youl never have with taht person is the bond you have with the one you are with now. it takes so long to build that, so sometimes we get to thinking were stuck!

after that many years, yeah, your gonna what to experience something new.

buy a vibrator or have a boyfriend to make you happy and alive.. you just wanna find a new one the one you have is boring you

Sometimes people get bored with relationships, especially if one party feels that it is one sided. Maybe the first thing you should do is try to talk to your significant other and see if something can be done to improve the relationship, if you feel it is worth trying to save. If not maybe then it is time to move on. You have to do what is best for you, and that is something that only you can decide. Strangers can not help you with this one because they do not know the whole situation. You need to evaluate what is making you feel the way that you do. That is where you need to start. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you the best of luck.

Not yourself?Then you are not the person he fell in love with,you owe him nothing,move on.
p.s.use a condom in nowhere land.

It's normal as all hell man. I can't see being with the same piece of a$$ all my life. You need variety!! Do you eat the same meal everyday? If you don't get variety in your life you go dead inside. One good night of wild uninhibited sex will do you some good. i'm sure you are going to read numerous responses to your Question- (proposals etc.)
let me ask you this-"? was the Seven years a learning experience, or did you get lost?"
before you get pregnant w/whomever's baby (assuming you are a woman by your picture) why not share this w/ the common-law and suggest a weekend (or week long OR more) get-away.
Maybe things have just gotten put on hold too much from both sides. Take a Cruise with ___ or take an inexpensive flight out of country with___ and search out that "BEST-sex" thing. if that doesn't help then explore options. i know you are not alone in feeling this way & it is quite possible the Other feels it also.
Good Luck and also you could switch hands ( that was Tacky- i apologize )

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