Affects of drugs?


Question:
I am pregnant (22), due in 4.5 weeks. A month ago the babies dad my ex boyfriend (23) kicked me out of his parents house told me he didn't love me or want to be with me anymore. This was literally over night. One minute he said we had made it and we were going to be together forever and 12 hours later he needed me gone. Then he started playing these head games with me saying I want to be a family and then turning around and showing totally different. Recently I found out he is running around with a 34 year old married woman, and he is very far into an addiction of cocaine and alcohol. He denies all of these things of course. He still goes to my doctors appointments with me and the other day and he had a hickey on his neck. Then in the room he wants to kiss me touch my belly tell me he loves me. I told him not to because he obviously doesn't care for my feelings.

He texts me daily saying he loves me and cares about me. He will say we can work this out and then say we will never be able to be together.

HELP!!
Does this seem like the drugs are doing this to him?
Does he really not care for me?

Answers:
Glen f, sorry, no offense, but if you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem.
JB, I don't know if it's better to say to leave him or to let him go. I know the next few months are going to be the hardest. But so are the next few years. You can't battle another woman plus drugs, plus alcohol, plus whatever tarnishing she's putting in his head especially about you. You guys are young, so maybe he'll "snap" in a year, or 6 or when your child is 14. Or he may never. That really sucks, I know. If he proves me wrong, I would be very happy. I really hope so, and wish you the best. However, don't expect anything, that way you aren't let down as much. He shouldn't be playing with your emotions like that, but, yeah, it's probably the drugs.
Cocaine will make you behave in ways that are hurt full to others. However for your sake and your baby's you should not let him in your lives if he is still using drugs. That isn't he image you want for your child to have of how life should be.


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