should i save sex until marage or shoul i doit now?


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mm. depends on how prejudiced you and your man and your and his familiy are, but I would advise trying out sex before. if nothing else, it may turn out your husband-to-be is violent or insufficient, and it's easier to find out before the wedding, rather than wait and be disappointed. not a few of the divorces (I had heard a statistic of 70%, but I don't recall precise sources) are brought about beause one or both partners are not sexually satisfied. Makes you stop and think, at least it made me stop and think.

And I always preferred knowing. If I find there is a problem, I'd rather know before I am commited, not after. But that's a personal preference.

But if your husband-to-be is likely to be upset about sex before the marriage. don't even mention it to him.

I hope you see what I mean. Try to make things easier for yourself, but not by making it harder on the other parties.

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DONT U DARE DO IT BEFORE MARRAIGE!
wait
WAIT!
do it now. what can it hurt?.. make sure you wear a condom.:)
wait till marriage. you don't want your husband to get what you get.
save it for marriage
depends on if you believe in what you believe then you wouldn't have to ask a dumbass question like that on here.

my god r u 4 real?
If it's a question of the "End is Nigh".

& I Doubt it.
U can wait a while longer.
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As my Aunt used to say: Why buy the cow if the milk is free? I think she is over 90 years old now and still kicking.
Once you do it, you never get your first time back. Don't do it unless you are absolutely sure it's what you want. If you have any doubts at all, wait. No harm can come from waiting but doing it too soon can break your heart.
guess the real question is do you want to get pregnant before you get married
from your spelling i'd say you are way to young, wait until your older, then make sure you our in a secure ralationship before you do the nasty.
Depends how old you are, be safe wear a condom.
Do it now. If only to make sure that the man you one day marry will be able to satisfy you and will be satisfied by you in return. You wouldn't buy a car without driving it first, and you only keep those for about 10-15 years. Marriage, ideally, is for life, and a good sex life is an essential part of it. Practice makes perfect, after all.
coming from a man i say you should waite.



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Depends on whether your planning on having kids. Just look at your future and think of how would you respond to a question from your own child. If you leave a good example, you have a better chance of convincing your child to honour your request whereas.
you should spend time learning how to spell properly before you bang yourself up.
do whatever makes u comfortable. The bible says no sex till marriage.
I think people should wait till they get married because it should be special and it is the right thing to do. Of course i live for the Lord and that is why i feel like that
I believe its your own personal choice but also that if you do it now it should be with a person that you love and care about
Life is short, start slinging it.
well i think if u want or have the feeling to have sex with someone it should be that special person just wait a while wait lik a year an if you still feel the same way i say its your decision we dont have to wait till marriage but parents want us to to make sure we r happy who were with an will hopefully be with forever
what if u were to die tomorrow?
just be safe.
but really, does anyone wanna die a virgin?
Yeah, wait until marriage, it'll be so much better that way.

I screwed up and didn't, and I would give anything to take it back and have only my hubby touch me. But life's not that way..
Do what feels right for you. If you feel that you are ready, go for it. Just be sure that you are ready and not caving into pressure from some guy (been there, done that). You'll know when it's time. No one else can tell you, only your opinion matters. Take care. :)


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