i'm 3 weeks pregnant and i dont have no $ for an abortion how can ihave an miscarriage?

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Give birth, grow up, and appreciate the gift from God.

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it's not wise for you to have a miscarriage on your own. if you really want to get rid of the baby, talk to someone and explain your problem. maybe someone will lend you the money to abort the child. if not, then just go through the pregnancy and at the end, give up the child for adoption.

Consult with a family planning facility or your doctor, they may be able to help you in that area.

I hope you are not serious..seek medical advice.and quickly.planned parenthood.anything

Just speak to friends and family and collect the $

You dont want to give birth unless YOU want to

No. No. No. Do not kill your baby. Let it have a life, be born, then place it for adoption to a loving family, if you must. Just don't kill it.

Go to Planned Parenthood. It won't be free, but they'll be able to provide you with the lowest cost possible and maybe even a payment plan where you can pay them back over time.

If all else fails, ask a trusted friend or two for help.

Also, for all the people suggesting she give birth and put it up for adoption: if she can't afford an abortion (which are usually between three and seven hundred dollars), how the hell is she going to be able to afford to pay between $2,500 and $3,000 for a hospital birth?

OMG you are so HORRIBLE to ask a question like that. Do you know how many people out there who CANNOT have children and would LOVE to have one..and YOU want to THROW the gift of life away just because YOU spread your legs and didn't protect yourself?!?!?! You are a horrible ungrateful person. Why don't you just keep the pregnancy and put the baby up for adoption for someone who DESERVES to have a baby?? Intead of KILLING YOUR INNOCENT UNBORN BABY you horrid little creature.
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I am completely against abortion

Don't! It is hard on your body and your mental state. First off how old are you? Second you may want to talk to a free clinic if you cna;t talk to your parents. Think first, please don't do anything final before lookin at all options.
Hammer

why would anyone want an abortion you know you are actually killing a human being ok a human being its just like shooting someone i don't know how anybody can live with themselves if they kill someone i know someone who had an abortion many years ago and she said she has always regretted it just don't get an abortion there's a little thing called adoption just think about it there is some people out there who really really want a baby and are not able to conceive and yet someone would just kill theirs and give up one of Gods most precious miracles! i cant believe it just think about adoption who ever this answer is intended for!!
oh and also a womans right to choose nd its my life actually its not your live it is your babys life they have their own mind their own DNA its their choice and personally my choice would be not to die so just think adoption

doesnt look like you are too smart girlie. try holding an asprin between your legs next time. if it falls you might get pregnant. but for now. dont kill the kid its not their fault. there are other options. talk to someone at PLANNED PARENTHOOD they can point into the right direction good luck

Talk to people. Call social services. You can find help. Really!

Read this VERY carefully !!
I did try to do something to myself a long time ago & ended up with more problems than I ever wanted.PLEASE go to a clinic or somewhere for professional help, please don't try anything on your own.

Planned Pregnancy or a Crises Pregnancy center in your area might give you some good options. Don't try to give your self a miscarriage. That will NOT be good for you.

I hope you will reconsider the decision to not have the child. If you are not in a position to love and raise it yourself, then there are a lot of people out there who would like to have a baby to take care of. Adoption would be hard on you - but nobody would have to die.

I'm praying for you today. Best wishes and God bless you and your baby.

I totally understand you don't want a pregnancy right now. But I would like to share with you the perspective of people who can never have children and just ask you to think of going through with the pregnancy and, if you feel you can't take care of the child, let him/her be adopted.

Because my daughter's birth mother chose to let her live, and also made the difficult choice of giving her up, my life has been so amazingly blessed. I know it would be a huge sacrifice for you, but consider that you may find in it an opportunity to bring an incredible light and joy into the world, if not for you, than for someone.

Please don't try to induce your own miscarriage in any case, it is very dangerous and you could kill yourself in the process. No matter what you choose, keep yourself safe.

Instead of judging her, why not give sound advice?

Referring to the Anti-Abortion Queen: Remove your rosaries from my ovaries.

You don't know her situation or anything about her.

Please listen to the non-judgemental quacks and visit Planned Parenthood..they have mentors on hand to help you. It could be called Family Planning, Planned Parenthood, etc. Call your local hospital if you can't find a listing for it.

Good Luck.

I hope your not serious as well. But, if you are keep the baby and give it to a loving family who would love a baby and cannot have another one, like me. Depending on your situation, best gift in the world to give to yourself or someone else. There is a lot of help out there, take care of yourself.

hey people.I don't agree with aborting, but attacking isn't the point.answer the questions.

the free clinics should be your best bet. i personally would put the child up for adoption, but thats not the best situation for everyone.

he's right killing is wrong how would you feel if you were aborted?. you would feel dead.

Why do you want to kill a human being, that baby deserves a chance at life, please just give it up for adoption. It will burden you later on in life, if you abort this percious child.

u r a sick worthless human what is wrong with u

a miscarriage can kill you. especially if you do that yourself. give the baby up for adaption. after you feel the baby kick and hear the heart beat of that child you hopefully will change your mind. also why in the world didn't you use birth control! if you knew you didn't want children. there are so many people who wish they were in your shoes but this is between you and God. so i hope you keep the baby. they don't always come as planned but God is the plan.

Are you serious? Next time use protection or not have sex at all! And do you know that it could totally tare you up on the inside and have to have a hysterectomy. You decide what you want to do to yourself first is it worth harming your own life to end another?

Girl..the main thing at this point is ur health and well being in future years.
I will tell you that if u abort this child it will haunt ur thoughts and actions for the rest of your life.
Someone very dear to me is still dealing with the consequences even after 20 yrs

The thing about paying for an abortion or for a delivery is something that can be worked out. There are free clinics in all major cities. There are kind and caring people working in all of them.

Just make sure of ur decision because once it is made it is irrevocable.

Try a little on line research about what ur baby looks like right now. Did u know it already feels pain? Go look it up sweetheart and make an informed not an emotional one. You are paniced right now and that is never a state of mind ot make any kind of decision.

Now take a deep breath and go talk to ur pastor, priest or best of all your mom and dad. This is something to big for one person to handle

Please don't anyone tell her how to do this. Miss you could die and you are taking a life.

Grow up. My angel is nine months tomorrow. I would die for her. She is my life. Having her is the best thing that ever happened to me. She is a joy. I was told that I would never get pregnant several years ago. I was 30 and I got pregnant. I knew it was a gift from God.

When a person chooses to have sex you have to take responsibility. AT LEAST GIVE THE BABY UP FOR ADOPTION. GIVE HIM/HER A CHANCE!

i knew people were going to rip you a new one for this is just like any other question on here when someone seriously needs help..judge,judge,judge

and to answer your question please go to planned parenthood they will help

I'm not going to say abortion is right or wrong. there is a time and place for everything and who am I to judge. What I can tell you is this. go have it professionally done if that is your choice. Your body will protect your unborn child in any means necessary, even if it kills you in the end. There are many groups out there that can help you.
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Im a nurse

The poster above is correct. None of the do-it-yourself methods are safe, nor are they going to work. The knitting needle or coathanger trick will kill you. Pills, douches, falling down stairs, etc., will not work either. You have only two sensible options; give birth and give the child up if you don't want it, or go to a free/low income community clinic somewhere and get help. That's all there is too it. Good luck to you.

At three weeks, your baby's heart is already beating. Get all the facts before you do something you might regret the rest of your life:

Information on all aspects of abortion:
http://Abort73.com

A four-minute, must-see video on abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Photos of abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

Abortion stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm

Photos and facts about prenatal development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm

Abortion risks:
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40

Abortion deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

Free, confidential help at a pregnancy center near you (referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

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