Why if you only have one sex partner, you desire goes down, but if you have many, it increases?
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Eat a bologna sanwich every day for a week. Then go to a buffet and you will have your answer.
It's called anticipation!
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maybe
I HAVE 1 SEX PARTNER AND I'M VERY SATISFIED.
Because sex is a drug. Having sex with only one person can get boring. Multiple partners increases the excitement, therefore you want more.
The thrill of the chase. The differences are what heightens the excitement. With one person you get used to it.with multiple partners you have it mixed up so much its hard to get into the same old rut.
I don't agree. I was a virgin when I got married and have only slept with my husband and my sex life is GREAT! And I have not desire to be with anyone else.
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5 years of marriage
Variety is the spice of life!
I've been with the same man for many years and I'm very satisfied, it never gets boring for us!
I don't believe that is true for everyone. At least not me.
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me
It's just you Dude
Because new experiences are one of the triggers of sexual desire. That's why doing it the same way with the same person in the same place at the same time, will drive people's sex drives down the drain or cause them to leave/cheat.
Variety is the spice of life. Also, you may be feeling an obligation to satisfy all those people and that is what gets you motivated.
grass is greener on the other side fence -beware of STD- fire feels good at first-bad move
read up on how to "spice up your sexlife"
Dont avoid the problem by looking somewhere else for satisfation.
Confront the problem, witch is: You are not a PRO at AWESOME SEX!
Seriously, sex "slumps" are normal. Its a sign that you have to:
a) expand your sexual horizon within your relationship
or
b) Take some time off, and focus on something else.
Sex gets better and better with time.
maybe because your with only one person and after awhile you get bore but with many people it always something different
I have one sex partner (who I love very much) and my desire hasn't, as you said "gone down".
you can et easily bred with just one partner. especily if you are together doing the samething the same way day after day. varity is the spice of live but to many spices can give you indigestion. you can like/love more than one person at a time for different reasons at any point in your life.
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life 101
That is very general since every single person has different tates and libido. I
have had one partner sexually and we are both very happy and satisfied and our desire has not diminished but increased with time and we are going on 14 years now!
Variety is the spice of life for most
Aunnie is like a person that has had only 1 flavor of ice cream. Yea she might thing it's the best in the world but she is ignorant if she thinks she knows what great sex is. In her little mind she is only trying to convince herself that what she has is great. I don't think she was a virgin either.
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