my mom is riding me about having sex i am 14 years old and i am careful what should i do ??
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You should listen to you Mom. She has your best interests at heart. You should NOT be having sex at your age - you're too young to even think about it. Don't try to rush to adulthood too early.
Enjoy the rest of your childhood, develop your interests, define where you want your life to go.
AND be careful not to give away too ea silly that which cannot be recovered, or reversed once it is done. In other areas, if you make a bad choice, you can take it back, or trade it in - but with this decision you cannot take it back in any way - you are stuck with it for the rest of your life - so be very careful NOT to make it a bad decision.
I know that you think you are grown, and mature, and responsible as an adult - but at 14, you are NOT yet.
Slow down. STOP. DON'T
LISTEN to you Mom, she is right on this.
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tell her how you feel
Just listen to her. You should also go and get put on birth control. It's the smart thing to do and it lessens period pains.. Listen to your mom.
dont do it till ur married
If you are considering having sex or if you are having sex, talk to your mom. You should ask her to put you on the pill. If you don't, you may end up pregnant. Then, what would you do?
Honestly?
You should NOT have sex. Do you know what kind of dieseases you can catch, do you know that most of them have no cure? Did you know that AIDS is rampant, and getting worse? Did you know that you are not Old enough to be making decisions about having sex? Wait until you are at least 19-20 and then decide for your self. For now, listen to you Mother, she sounds like she knows what she is talking about.
Listen to your mother..She knows best! dont do it. your mom knows best. if you do it your mom will find out YOU WILL BE PREGNENT
listen to your mom, you have plenty of time to "experience" and grow up.i know it seems like you are mature and able to handle it, but you aren't.aside from the emotional and spiritual damage pre-marital, teen sex can cause, you have STDs and pregnancy to deal with..you are barely more than a little girl, take the time to grow at your own pace
14 is TOO young for sex.. Your mom SHOULD be on your butt about this issue..
You are just a kid.. 14. is still a kid..
With all the diseases not to mention the emotional stress etc. etc. I would have to agree with your mother. 14 is way to early! umm..I lost my virginity at 14 your to damn young and everyone will say the same thing. What does a 14 year old need sex for? Even if your careful your not at the maturity level to handle the other **** that comes with have sex with someone. That it from someone who knows by experience.
Not to sound like an 'uncaring adult'.
I lost my virginity when I was 22. I'm now 26 and married, to a different person than the one I lost my virginity to. There have been problems in my marriage because I didn't wait for my husband to be my first. Not on my husband's part, but for me, emotionally and physically. You don't realize things like this until you actually get to that point, and I can't go back.
Be careful and keep yourself safe.
Your mom is showing you signs that she is afraid.As a mother we only want the best for our children.Teenage pregnancy is so common as well as HIV /AIDS/STDS. No parent wants to see their child endure these things.Talk to your mom and tell her you know she is afraid but that she can trust you(can she?) Show how responsible and trustworthy you are.Let her know that you will come to her with anything you are unsure about/need answers to. You need to stop having sex at 14! Let your body develop fully, then if you want to, experiment!
Your mom is looking out for you and doesn't want anything to happen to you; such as STD's or pregnancy. Nothing is 100% safe for anything. It's not fun being pregnant at 14! My cousin was and her whole life got flipped up-side-down. It's not exactly possible to go to the mall with friends, check out the hot guys, have a job to pay for food, diapers, clothes etc when you're trying to go to school at the same time, all with a baby.
Just stop and think about it; put yourself in your mom's shoes for just a second. How would you feel if you had a daughter who could get an incurable illness, or pregnant? Your mom's not trying to be mean or controlling, just trying to protect you.
My mom and I always had a good relationship. Your mom just wants what is best for you, and she is probably scared about pregnancy, and STD's. She was young once too, maybe she made some stupid decisions she is trying to save you from. If it is something you just can not talk about with her, consult your local birthright or whatever, you could get on birth control and they give out free condoms. USE BOTH! Pills and rings and shots do not prevent against STD's, and pills, and such can fail. Protect yourself, maybe in a few years she'll come around and be willing to view you as an adult, you are still her little baby! Your mom is telling you TO have sex?? If that is the case tell your dad, school counselor, clergyman, a cop, SOMEONE!!
If she is telling you NOT to have sex, why would you ask people online for advice when not of us knows or cares or loves you. Your mom surely does that! Listen to her! YOU WILL REGRET IT IF YOU DO NOT!
If a guy pressures you, dump him and never look back!
IF you are Christian, then you should already know that God's word tells us to abstain from sex until our weddings.
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