Whats an easy legal way to get a high? call me a loser and report me... but I need a fix my dad died?
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I am not going to call you a loser or report you. But the pain is going to be there whether you numb it or not. I lost my dad too some years back, so I know.
Just cry, sweetie. Cry and cry. The pain you try to smother will just pop out another place or another time. Go ahead and grieve. It's normal to be sad and heartsick at this time.
Sorry about your dad---but, no such thing. Both of my parents died. I didn't use anything to numb the pain. I felt it, went through it and that was it. You have to grieve and get it over with. Numbing yourself---it is only a temporary fix----and when it wears off, you will be all upset again, then you'll want another fix and so on---until you are a junkie.
No one should judge you and you are not looser. I'm sorry to hear about your dad and I hope that you decide not to do that. I am praying for you and I hope that you will do that for yourself instead, because the high won't bring your dad back.
God bless
Since when was whiskey on the rocks not good enough to deal with depression (or cause more of it). But seriously, if you are a recovering drug user you need to stay off it. If you are not a drug user don't start. Just be sad like everybody else. Sorry your Dad died. Stay strong for him. You'll get through OK.
What makes you so weak as to need something, when the majority of the population dealing with death and bereavement are able to do so without a "fix"
I'm Sorry for your loss, but get some backbone and face it like a man!
Hey, sorry about your dad. I lost my mom when i was 15, n all i wanted to do was lay in bed all day and jsut sleep because when i slept there was no pain, and i did it for a while. then i didnt graduate. Ive grown out of that though, becuz i realized that im only hurting myself. and my mom was the type of person that would never want anyone to be angry or sad because of her. and thats what i use everyday. Every time i take a drink, or a puff, i think what the heck am i accomplishing. ya i still do it. but its occasionally, becuase im not using it as a justification. know what im saying?...n ya right now at this moment you might want it.but it will only cover it up for that short 10 minutes, then when thats over your going to feel it all over agian. and your just going to want it more and more and more. i dont know u and i dont kno your dad but im pretty sure that a father would never want his son to do that. and to be strong. and listen igrew up with four brothers. my brothers are grown men and they cried more then anyone. its okay to let it out hun. trust me thats the best pain reliever. never keep it in. if you have that urge to cry CRY!...if you ahve the urge to scream and yell SCREAM N YELL!...and if you have the urge to hit something HIT SOMETHING(not a living thing, but you get my jist).
you can do it hun!
the only thing that is going to you help you is to talk to someone like a counselor &/or,a friend who'll understand. everyone has had a person close that they lost and it hurts, but it will get better soon. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, OKAY?!
I lost my cousin about a year ago in a four wheeler accident. He was only 15. It was so tragic. So I know what you are going through but getting high isn't the way to solve the problem. You just need to cry and cry and cry and cry and cry and don't be embarrassed to cry. It is normal. I was flooded with tears when my cousin died. I know it can be hard.
That'll only make you feel twice as bad after it's over. Don't get high to cover up problems, that's why drugs have a bad name.
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