How to control a child that swears?
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Time out on the bottom step of the stairs at home. One minute on the step for every year they were born. Don't react to them, don't even make eye contact just on the step every single time they misbehave in this manner - they soon get entirely bored (after a few tantrums) and will stop doing it. This will take you having a huge amount of patience to withstand the screaming, but it will work.
It always starts with the parents. You could try a cattle prod.
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wash his mouth out with soap and water
refuse to do anything for them -
to cook
to clean their room
reduse to let them out
Sounds like it's a bit too late. Where did he get all that behaviour from in the first place? Sounds like he will turn into a delightful teenager, not.
Ignore the child for awhile and make sure that the child learns that there will be consequences for such bad behaviour. If that doesn't work try seeking some professional help via child phsychologist. Hope that helped.
put him in time out and make sure he knows if he does it again your going to put him back in time out. that way he knows your not going to stop unless he behaves.
The best policy is not to make a fuss over it. Just stand there and say "We don't use words or gestures like that in this house. They are not acceptable."
This way the words and actions will loose their impact and they will soon stop doing it. Making a fuss, getting angry etc will be the sort of response the child is seeking and make them do it even more.
Just ignore it, don't react to it and simply say that it is unacceptable.
when i swore once to my mum she put washing-up liquid down my mouth ... don't do that
just ignore him/her and walk away
when they do stop doing this say ask them what is wrong
if you feel that they don't deserve whatever they want say NO and walk away
eventually they will get the point and be good :D
Oh my...how did he get so out of control to begin with? Drastic situation calls for drastic measures. You take everything away and make him earn his things with good behaviour. Strip the room of most of his toys. Leave a few favourites. If he misbehaves -- take one...and don't give it right back. Make him feel it for at least a couple of days. Let him slowly earn his things back.
Don't allow privileges either...do the same thing with them. Don't argue or fuss...just take and then ignore him. Walk away and let him fume by himself. When he's rational, talk to him about his behaviour.
Slap him.
A bit of dicipline never hurt anyone. Parents are too 'Scared' to control their children these days, no wonder there's so many out of control children these days.
when he or she swears tell them not to. if they contiue to swear take away the tv so u tell them if they stop swearing for a week they can have the tv back and tell them if it carry on there will be a punishment
when he swears give him a little slap in the face and when he sticks up the finger slap him on the hand. when he hits and kicks slap him on the butt and set him in the corner.
Interesting. Sounds like Tourettes. See a doctor.
Don't tolerate any nonsense stop the kid now or start crying for his future.
Kids need to know who's in charge,and that's why sometimes they act like chucky, wash his face with cold water,slap his bottom and send him to his bedroom or cage.
Its very important that both parents obey each others rule and decision over the child's punishment.
good luck
What an awful child! Is it yours? Id wring its neck!!
The child has learnt the searing from somewhere and someone. If the parents don't swear, then he must have learnt it from outside. If you believe he learnt it from the the new friend down the street, don't let him go there.
tell them that it's wrong and if they keep on doing this then all the advantages eg. going out, computer, phone, tv will be taken off them and that they will go up to their room when they get home from school and come down for tea get ready for bed and then go to bed that should scare them!
that should really knock sense into them
Hope this helps
I have seen such a child on TV. My idea of dealing with a child like that would be wash his/her mouth with carbolic soap every time an episode is repeated.
The problem with this kid he/she knows that there will be nothing done about his/her behaviour therefore I can do what i want.
I could never have a child like that because the very first time I hear anything I think a child should not say, I correct it there and then, that way the child realise that it is wrong.
A child is a small person who repeat things they hear in the home or another person's home so they think it's OK to say what they hear.
Some parents think that a child is stupid they don't know what they hear or see, that is completely wrong.
A child is at his/her most receptive when young rather like learning your native language it comes naturally by seeing and listening. A child must not be blamed for learning what they see and hear.
every time he swears put a little soap in his mouth! and make shore you do it every single time he swears ! my mum dont that to me when i was little and every time i accidently sweard i would run into my room ! as for the kicking for not getting his own way! i dont no he sounds like a normal spoilt kid lol i would say everytime he does it and chucks a spaz take somthing of his every time he does it and when he stops doing it and realize it gets him no were give them all back!
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