I never had a boyfriend?
Question:
Some are like 12 and are already serious in a relationship.
But i've never had a real boyfriend. It's kinda sad.
and I really do feel like i'm ready to be in a relationship.
I'm almost 16 in october..
Answers:
I think it's pretty common to not start dating until 16 or after. I assure you, the 12 year olds you know who think they're in a serious relationship are wrong. At their age they have no idea what a serious relationship is.
If you still haven't had a boyfriend by the time you're 20, then you should start worrying. But if it takes another year or two, that's no big deal.
Just find ways to spend time with boys, like hanging out with large groups of friends of both genders, or being in an after school activity with both genders, and it'll happen sooner or later.
your being silly. whats the rush? your gonna rush to get a boyfriend and end up going out with some loser. you will find someone soon. dont dwell on it.
it is not a problem, just wait
Look, your 15. Yes your friends probably have a boyfriend/girlfriend. But when it's righ...it will happen. Don't try to make it happen and get yourself hurt. Go with the flow and enjoy life!!
don't base your happiness on what you see other girls doing, they are not you. Just be yourself, be friendly and when the time is right, some nice young man will find you.
Its absolutely okay...I mean you have so much time in your life to have a boyfriend.just have fun with your friends and i promise you that you wont regret it. and trust me soooooo many people that i know and including me dont really date much or at all for that matter during high school. Besides you shouldnt just settle for some guy beacuse you want to say that you have or had a boyfriend..hope this helps
I didnt have my first date until I was 20. At your age, the most important is study and enjoy being a teenager.
take ur time and wait for the right person
There is absoulutely nothing wrong with being 15 and not yet having a boyfriend. On the other hand there is something wrong with the 12 year olds having a serious relationship. They are trying to grow up so fast. Just relax being a teenager. A boy will come at the right time.
It's ok. Not having a boyfriend is not the end of the world eventually you will find someone but until then just go about your normal life and be happy.
Its just a for a name anyways... "oooo Kelly is going out with John" who cares at your age its just a status.
I know at fifteen waiting can be difficult, and it can feel like it will never happen, but trust me, you will meet lots of men as you grow older. Young love rarely lasts, so most of your friends who are serious now will be single later. Focus on your education and career goals. There is nothing more attractive to a good man than a woman who is independent and has goals. Most importantly: don't settle for just anyone. Being with the wrong person can be much worse than being single. I wish someone had told me that when I was your age. I'm 35 and went through years of heartache before I learned that it's better to wait for a quality man than take whoever comes along.
Oh honey relax...I didn't have my first boyfriend till I was 15..You can't rush yourself to grow up....enjoy your teen hood...and your friends who are 12 are not in a serious relationship...trust me!! They are kids, as are you..enjoy your life, and when you meet the a nice guy, go for it..and at your age now, they are all boys- they don't know what they are doing... Later on you will need a man! A gentleman! So don't think about it or stress yourself over it...Just relax and enjoy being 15, don't be in a hurry to be 21...Life just gets harder, so enjoy being a kid and acting wacko, after all this is the only age for you to do so .so don't miss your chance! I hope that later on in life you meet a nice guy, good luck!
Correct me if I am wrong, but at your age or younger, it seems that a "boyfriend or girlfriend" means that I like you and you like me. There may be a kiss or playfulness , unless you are really experimenting< but that is about it. You talk alot or maybe not much at all. It is the claim that matters. In any case it is a start to relating to the opposit sex. It is not wrong to not have a "boyfriend" yet. There is the rest of your life to worry about and deal with the opposit sex. The later you wait and mature the better to me. At this age any opposit sex relationship puts tremendous pressure on you when you are already at a vunerable age of hormones and emotions. If you feel ready, just remember that there is "nothing" you have to do that makes you uncomfortable in any way. It is always your choice.
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