I'm feeling lost in my life?
Question:
my love life is more or less dead, there's nothing going on there. even though i'm trying the lack of experience doesn't help matters much.
living one day at a time only helps for so long, until i realize that i'm in a rut again. i've dealt with depression in the past and things were getting better but i feel like i'm sliding backwards.
any suggestions on how to get my life on track? or at the very least find some direction or motivation or something to move towards? i just feel so lost right now, adrift in a sea without a paddle or destination.
Answers:
well it will all work out but you need to keep positive thoughts. Stop focusing on the bad...from what you say your life isnt bad. It just sounds to me like you are bored...you need more excitement. That's ok! Think of things that you could do that will make you happy...and dont look for someone else to make you happy. You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with anyone else. Things could be so much worse. No one can tell you how to get your life on track bc it is your life...you have got to figure out what is going to motivate you...take a little trip somewhere...maybe you need to meet new people...but quit dwelling on it and make changes...you dont need a pill from the doctor...just do it!
Well, my young friend, it's time for you to go back and get some professional assistance. You have a number of what are considered classic symptoms of depression. Since you say you dealt with your depression in the past and it improved, you really do know that you need to get back there, don't you. Do it. Get on the phone and make an appointment to see your therapist for a "pick me up." It could be that's all you need.
Good luck with this. You are not alone. There are millions of folks with the same type of issues as you. A competent therapist will work wonders.
hey dont be sad...you are lucky compared to my situation right now that i dont even have the money to eat here in singa pore my application for employment pass has been rejected i gave everything up my job in my country and because i want to work here in singapore so much i barrowed money from my friends and also here in singapore..and i dont even know how to pay the place im staying right now and how to pay those debts...anyway i dont want you to think about my problem..i think what you should is to travel then on that travel think of something that you really want then when you figure it out go for it and im sure with that you will be happy you take care and pray hard....God bless you..i hope God will help me also in present situation right now
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