Embarrassed about telling my mates i have to go into hospital tomorrow?
i am going in to hospital on tomorrow afternoon for an operation on monday morning. i will be having a noticeable turn in my right eye corrected. the thing is i have only told my mum and my cousin-and that took alot of courage! should i feel so embarrassed about telling people? how would you feel if your mate was in my position and they told you??x
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I think you're brilliant!! Well done!! You should be so proud of yourself!! I had a squint correction.and I have never been happier. Totally easy...totally painless and not scary at all...the dentist's is far worse...honestly!! You are doing the right thing for certain and will be feeling a million dollars afterwards and so pleased that you did!! Get ready to start a fabulous new life with perfect eyes :-) Good luck!! Bernard. (Plymouth, Devon).
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noones perfect
and you may get more visitors if you tell 'em
good luck
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Seems silly to be embarrassed to tell them about it if its something they are already aware of. I don't think there is any reason to be embarrassed or ashamed for such surgery.
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no..you dont have to be embarrassed..but also - you dont have to tell them..its your business & if you are shy about it - keep it quiet.
good luck..if i had the same problem..i would do exactly what you are doing..having it corrected. you'll be so glad you had it done..i wish you well!
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tell your mates, that's what friends are for.
to support you in your hour of need.
do they really need to find out after the fact & realise that they could have visited you & supported you undergoing an operation?
tell them, good friends will understand & help you.
any one who pulls away from you, is not your friend!
Stop being so insecure,,,, if they are your true friends and mates they will support you. if not ...are they true mates ??? good luck with the op. All my best .
There is no need to feel embarrassed at all. I wouldn't think anything except concern if one of my friends was going in for an operation no matter what it was. And considering it's surgery associated with your eye you're probably worried anyway, without having to have their feelings to worry about.
My advice is just tell them straight out without making a big deal of it and I can guarantee you they'll be fine. I'm sure that they will understand and if they had the same thing they may well want to have the corrective surgery too.
Good Luck!! xx
ps. and as for telling your mum about it and that taking courage it shouldn't be like that you should be able to tell your mum anything, she loves and cares for you and I'm sure would want to be there for you for support while in hospital and in your recovery afterwards
so don't say anything - they might not even notice
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i wish you luck with your surgery.there is no reason to be embarrased.we all need something fixed at some point. my daughter had the same surgery ,in both eyes and the whites of them turned deep red.so people will know when they see you,that you had something done.it's best to be upfront with your family.it's your decision,tho.tell them or don't.
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What is there to be embarrassed about? lol I read the question without the rest of it and thought maybe you'd gotten your willy stuck in something.
hey, whats there to be embarrassed about ? my daughter got that done a few years ago and boy...what a difference. men..they prob wont even notice !! just tell them, they'll be fine about it and wont even batter an eyelid.
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I don't get what you are embarrassed about - do you think they will consider you to be vain or something? It's nothing to be embarrassed about, that's what hospitals are for.
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Why would you be embarrassed!! Never ever do that!! You know what? Since they don't know! Don't tell them! OK. This is what you do. They're gonna say wow what the heck happened to your eye. Because of the bandages. Your gonna say..Oh yea-yea-yea. I'm alright. Little surgery. This is all you have to say. The rest is smooth sailing. Hey see I kind of made a joke. Good luck on Monday. Your be just fine. Write again. later on.
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It's yer eyeball, luv. Not yer twat :) State it proudly! If you act all uncomfortable about it, so will everyone else.
Good friends would only be concerned for you, there's nothing to be embarrassed about. All of us need "fixing" to one extent or another - would you be embarrassed about going to the dentist? Just tell 'em, they'll probably come and see you, with or without grapes!
Sorry, but it's the big bugbear about living with 'Perfection' in your life: - there's ''always'' the chance that something could go awful (or even mildly) wrong, and create an 'imperfection.'
~ And thus it signalled the end of creation as we knew it.
It must be terrible for your mates, having to live in a world with someone who has such a 'terrible,' really 'terrible' awful PROBLEM.
You must pay deep homage to them for being kind enough to put up with having the likes of You on the periphery of their lives ~ I'm assuming that's where you are, as opposed to being anywhere near to the 'centre' (LOL) of their lives.
With so many lovely mates, you MUST count your blessings and not get in their way.
Wish you the best.
Sash.
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