Can you have sex without a condom, or the pill, and not get her pregnant?
Question:
She can't get on the Birth Control Pill right now, and we don't want to use a condom. What are our options?
My ideas are: Pull out, only immediately after her period, or.. do it once and use Plan B?
What about Diaphragms? Where can I purchase one of those for her? Does it feel the same with one of them?
Answers:
Your ideas will have you on here asking "could she be pregnant?". There are some spermicides BUT they are best used with a condom. And what you really don't want is to conceive a child. I would suggest you use the condoms.
A diaphram is fitted and has to be prescribed and fitted by a medical practitioner.
EDIT:
WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM ABOUT USING CONDOMS?
It is possible that she wouldnt get pregnant. Even condoms and birth control aren't 100% accurate. Pulling out is not accurate at all. I'm not sure about the spermicides. I disagree with the Plan B pill just because you want to have sex without the consequences but thats just my personal opinion. You don't mention why she can't go on the pill, if its a monetary reason she could go to a free health clinic or look up in the local phone book "planned parenthood".
if u dont use any sort of protection she will get preggy.your plan doesnt sound good. it doesnt matter if shes on her period or off it shes still at risk to get pregnant. u can get diaphragms from a gyno and yes it will feel the same for her. good luck
Every one of my friends that asked me that have kids now!
if you pull out you can still knock her up (pre- ***) and you can only get diaphragms at her dr. you can try vaginal contraceptive film aka vcf.
It is possible to have sexual intercourse without birth control and not get pregnant. However, it is very risky. Withdrawal doesn't always work because some of your semen may still yet enter her vagina before your withdraw from her. Spermicides work best when used in conjunction with a condom or a diaphragm. A doctor fits a woman with a diaphragm, she can't get one without a doctor. You have very limited options here, I hope you make a wise decision.
The 'pulling out' method is NOT fool proof! Pulling out before you climax does NOT guarantee that she still won't get pregnant...if I was you I wouldn't rely on that at all. I'm not positive but I think she would have to see the gynecologist in order to get a diaphragm, because they certainly aren't available at your local Wal-Mart or Walgreens. From what I've heard, spermicide is not very reliable. I really urge you to use a condom..there are certain ones you can buy that enhance the pleasure for both of you. Also, you will probably enjoy sex with a condom more since you know she definitely won't get pregnant...you won't have to worry about it at all, but if you just use the pull out method I'm certain both of you will be slightly worrying about pregnancy until her period comes. I really, really urge you to use a condom because there were a few times my boyfriend didn't use one and my period came a few days late and we were SCARED OUT OF OUR MINDS during those few days wondering if I was pregnant or not..it was really really really miserable. Anyways I'm done blabbering now, Good luck!
ok, i was married for seven years and had sex everyday,and never used anything and never got pregnant but then i meet someone else and never used anything and about seven months later i was pregnant, then i used the pill and i still got pregnant, so all i have to say is its up to you and her just remember a baby changes your life forever, so before you do anything think about what you two would do if she did get pregnant,and talk about it. by the way if you do have sex you do not want to do it two weeks after her period thats the best time to get pregnant, and you can get pregnant during her period. so just think before you do and talk to each other.
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