I am anti-social and shy and can't talk to girls help!! And I am just entering Collegee!!!!?
Question:
Answers:
Asking girls out and hanging out with friends shouldn't be a chore. A good way to always have something to say is to always have something going on in your life. That way you can always talk about it. Pick up a hobby that would be fun for you to do and for people to hear about (biking, horseback riding, photography etc). When people want to talk you can always bring up your hobby and talk about it endlessly. :) Join clubs in college. It's a great way to meet new people.
Look, if you ask a girl out, worst thing that can happen, she says no. No worse than not asking. Just talking? Act like it's a dream, that you don't care cause your gonna wake up soon. Live like you're dreaming.
Don't worry too much! A lot of guys have a horrid time talking to girls. (We won't bite...) Just act confident with people and make them feel comfortable around you. The best way is to just be yourself! Try not to make people think that you're trying to fit in. Make them think you DO fit in! Good luck with the ladies! ;D
I think that you should work on dealing with friends and people first try joining a club on campus that your intrested in. They tend to be small and its a great way to get out on Friday nights and maybe even meet a girl thats intrested in the same thing you are which gives you something to talk about. Good luck, I am sure you'll do fine.
Just Relax man be open to try new things you may like and just work on building confidence strick up a rondom converstaion with a person in one of your classs work from there
You need to join a Toastmasters Group.
With more confidence and better presentation skills you will be more successful in the world in general.
You have a slight insecurity issue, that's all. I've helped lots of guys like you overcome this. Add me on Yahoo Messenger david_sexton_phd. I can get you on track.
David Sexton., Relationships Advisor/Author
More Questions & Answers...