Masturbation question?
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take it easy on yourself.it's not the same as masturbating. that's a natural bodily function. it's callled pre-ejaculate..don't freak out. if you really don't want to be confronted with this situation, then try not to put yourself in situations when this happens. i don't think masturbation is something to be ashamed of (of course cultural differences can account for your embarassment and shame) Controlling what you see and think can be very difficult tasks. Good luck with this. Btw, i think this "alone time" is pretty normal if you don't have a girlfriend or if you are a virgin. Try not to be ashamed of yourself....bk
It is called pre come. It comes out when you are excited sexually. Its the same stuff coming out as when you masturbate, just smaller amount of it. It is hard to stop , especially when you are younger because your sex drive is crazy , so good luck, but really, why even stop. its a natural thing.
Just get yourself neutered, and be done with it. SHEESH!
I think they call it a wet dream but it ususally occurs when you sleep...I guess it can occur when aroused as well. Its natural honey...dont worry about it. It will happen whether you masturbate or not.
dont worry this happens to everyone. it is called pre-c*u*m. this happens when you get turned on. dirty movies tend to do this to a lot of people so dont worry, you are perfectly normal. if you want to stop this just try not to watch these type of movies or think about dirty things. and no it is not masturbation so you are ok.
its nothing to be ashamed about, its basiclly your body telling you that its ready for sex. What is coming out is not sperm but the fluid that they travel in, your sperm and this lube come from two different places, its not milky like sperm it is natural and you have nothing to worry about its all part of growing up.
Well, I'm not sre, I think that you just get wet but I don't think it's the same as masterbating.. but of course, I know that If I watch a dirty scene in a movie, I'd get wettoo.. and I don't masterbate so.. Im not asure but Im not meaning to be rude or nasty either, it's alright;) Just keep it up You're doing well;-)
leaking happens even when you get older it just happens more when you are young wear underwear it helps keep it out of public and no you can't use it up and make it not happen
It sounds to me like when you're getting an erection, you're noticing the "pre-***" which is a natural lubricant the body produces. It's not the same...
By the way, there is nothing wrong with masturbating, if you did it more often, you wouldn't experience this as much.
There was a song once that went...
ask your mom or ask your dad... maybe consult your religion?
I generally think its a lack of something for someone to do. Find happiness in life go outside its summer. get a job make some $ buy something.
Please don't ever say your ashamed to masturbate, is that why you stopped?? It is normal and healthy to do it.
I don't think watching these films is exactly the same as physically masturbating, but people become aroused in so many ways and if this happening, its nothing to either worry about or be ashamed of.
Go ahead and enjoy yourself, your only young and your pleasuring yourself in the safest way possible!! xxxx
the fluid is normal the same as when you have a wet dream its just semen. its very normal to masturbate too, dont bottle it up ,so to speak, and dont spend time counting days .if u need to masturbate just do it dont make it into a big deal n get your self wound up sexually and mentaly
Firstly, dont worry! it happens to all of us at some stage in male life.
the slight dribble you are getting is premature ejaculation once you have gained some experience this will subside.
DONT WORRY IT HAPPENS!
First off, there's nothing wrong with masturbation, it's a normal curiosity. Next, you can't stop pre-come from happening. That's one of your body's reactions to being turned on. It's like a woman getting wet...there's no way to stop it. But no, it's not the same as masturbating, because you are not stimulating yourself. Don't be ashamed, I doubt anyone over the age of 17 can say they've NEVER masturbated.
John buddy,
You are being tooo hard on yourself. My guess is that you are a religious guy. If you are a Christian, remember that Christ experienced all things that we have to pass through, and he overcame all of it. He understands what you are feeling, and isn't going to punish you for being human. Sometimes being human is a punishment enough.
You are smart to learn self-control. You need to cut yourself a little break and understand that you are human. The stuff coming out of the end of your phallus was probably cowper's gland fluid, meant to lubricate the urethra to make ejaculation more effective. That's okay - there's no sin in having a body that is functional.
I admire you for being so strong at such a young age. Keep at it, and be nice to yourself. Respect yourself for your good choices. Excess semen will release itself at night, like you've probably experienced. Don't feel bad if you have a dream that feels inappropriate. You are becoming a man.
Don't be ashamed, please. You are a good guy who is trying hard. I wish someone would have talked to me when I was your age and told me that I wasn't evil for going through puberty. You're not John. You're a child of God and He is preparing you to be a father. That's a great thing. Just respect that sacred power like you do. And please don't be so hard on yourself. You're worth too much for that.
It's pre-cu*m. Don't be ahamed of masterbating! It's healthy and natural. Masterbating once or twice a day is fine. Good luck to you, kiddo! :)
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