I am being mentally abused by my father and mother what should I do?

Question:

I basicually just figured out that my father and mother are mentally abusing me. I am 20 will be 21 July 2nd but anyways I am going to College in August my mother and father do not support me at all. They do drugs and also my mother drinks everyday. I would like advice if someone would please tell me what I should do. I would move out but I dont have the money. I don't know what to do please please please help me!

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Let me ask you this, are you going to local college? Can you get a dorm? Alot of schools have programs w/ $$ assistance where you can get a dorm room too. I would def. look into removing yourself from the sittuation b/c then you could be better able to help them clean up their lives. If they are supporting you $$ you may need to gather up some family and friends and do some type of intervention. Know that thay will resent you for a while, but I'm sure the drugs&drinking are contributing to how they treat you. There are some great family couselors out there and many progs. to which your family would benefit. Things will prob. get worse b/f they get better, but hang in there.

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Call the cops.

SEEK HELP FROM A QUALIFIED PROFESSIONAL. TALK TO A PASTOR, TEACHER, COUNSELOR OR DOCTOR. DO SO QUICKLY. have some of your friends split an apartment with you so you dont need to pay as much

get a brain
get a job
get your own apartment
get a life
get over it!

You have any friends you can stay with till school begins? You try for financial aid, and stay at the dorms. It's a volatile situation with drug user and alcoholic, leave to other family or friends. Get out of there and live your own life.

I would apply for a job. That can get you the financial freedom to get away. Also, let a relative know. Maybe someone will take you in until you can get up on your feet. Whatever you do get away from the situation. Its not worth you letting yourself be destoryed.

Well, your of age to get out on your own. See if their is anyone else you can live with. Or After you turn them in for the Drugs. You'll be all alone. As far as turning them in for abuse, and drinking. The cops will probably laugh, since you are old enough to get yourself out of the situation.

Go to college and stick with it, that's what will make it possible for you to gain the independence to get away from your parents and their lifestyle. There are support groups available for the families of substance abusers. Al-anon and Narc-anon are two such groups. If you are 20 going on 21, you are old enough to be self supporting.. it will not be easy but is do-able. You will have to set boundaries with your parents as to how much you will be willing to take from them.. only you can determine how much you can cope with. Good luck.. just run.

Dear friend ,

As a mother of two successful children i don't have but to wish you all the luck and blessing you need.

I advise you to chose the major you like the most and go to collage concentrate on your study and try to find a part time job .
and when you get home you try to keep away from bringing any trouble with your parents and keep this time for your rest only.

Here I have nothing but to wish that someday they will realise what are they doing to themselves and you .

good luck in your study and take care.

your there son you no wot 2 do be strict there ruining there helth by drinking and drugs they must stop (unless the doctors say they should br taking the drugs) get there life sorted but dont ruin ur life to u go to college get a jod and share a house wiv mates maybe move back in wiv ur parents when there ok..good luck.. if your version is correct, you are in a pathological condition. you approach one of your elder relatives who can talk to your parents. i think your parents need urgent consultation of a psychologist. as they protest to consult a psychologist, you take the help of your relatives who command respect.if the problem still persists there is no alternative but to go out of your house and lead your life with courage otherwise you will also be addicted to drugs and drinks

try to get a job and save up for a house. otherwise stayout of house as much as possible. I really don,t know if the police or anyone else can help unless their hurting you physically since your 20 years old. I wish you the best of luck.

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