I hate my life?
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you HAVE got to stop thinkin like that.
once. i almost commited suicide.
i had the knife to my wrist ready to do the damage and end it all. but then i stopped. i thought about all of the good times. how this may be my only chance at life. how this could be my one shot in all of eternity you need to tell yourself its alright. because it is...it might not seem that at this time but when you are that low its hard to pick yourself up you jus have to think if im this low right now it cant get any worse. think of the memories you had with your friends. your friends will be back they are your friends. and your family...trust me i know how you feel...my family is never there for me never appreciates me and never ackknowledge my existence in their house so some days it is pretty rough but its the days when you had fun and you enjoyed life that pull you through these times...everything will be okay. what really helped get me through my low times was music and ice cream nothing better than a half gallon of ben & jerrys.
i feel your pain and i completely understand<333
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everybody has bad days. everybody. don't obsess about it. you never get anything you can't handle under ideal circumstances.
you'll get through it. stay strong. just remember--once your outta coledge, you can move out (and away) from everything, your family, etc. and start your own life.
plus sizes are considered sexy nowdays...never be ashamed of your weight!
good luck!
Is thisajoke1234! If it is it sure is a bad one!
i hated my lfe too when i was younger, now life is good. when you get out of school all the peer preasure is off.
you have to talk to someone about it and if you lock it up then you are just harming yourself even more. Most kids feel like **** now and again or even for a few years but you will grow out of it and live wont always suck.
Maybe you have ADD. If you take med's you can focus and get good grades and accomplish all you start .....
you can change somethings in youre life but there is some no.. i am over weight & i smoke,people give me crap all my life about my wieght & it bugged me to no end.now i hear people b***hing about my wieght & smoking i can care less...hang in there things will get better.dont let it get to you.bigger people are harder to kidnap!!!!!
find God or find something your good at/like and put you whole engery into that
Not telling a psychiatrist what's troubling you sort of defeats the purpose of going, doesn't it? Believe me, the psych has probably heard it all before. You have to realize the only person who can change your life is you. Noone can or will do it for you. AND- you have to be willing to do the work necessary. Sometimes it's scary, or can make you sad or angry, but once you get on that road, it's a whole heck of a lot better than staying stuck.
You should never give up the hope.
You know.
I've been through a lot of bullshit in my life.. seriously..
I also have bad grades.. people hate me.
But I won't let it put me down. I still stay strong and I keep thinking positive. It keeps me strong and makes me mentally stronger. It may make me sound conceited but I think I'm special.
About the weight. You can get rid of it but you should be happy withever what you feel comfortable with.
It's ok to be ashamed. I feel ya. I got the same problem by this.
Keep being strong ! Don't hate your life ! =)
The best way to open your eyes is to take a trip to a children cancer hospital or a school for the deaf and blind. A lot of times people suffer from excessive self pity of how "Bad" there life is. You are right now living in a very small world in your mind, there are people who life is 100times worst and they love every minute of it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself!
well you not talking to your psychiatrist is not going to help you get/feel better...you are responsible for happiness...you have help available...take it. others that have similar issues would do anything for the opportunity to bee seen and evaluated by a professional, but cant due to no money...no professionals to help...think about that before you take for granted the help you have right in front of you...
Only you can turn your life around. And maybe talking to someone would help, no is here to judge you. Its sounds like you have already judged yourself. You can do anything! Better grades! Your Family does not hate you maybe mom and dad are disappointed and they know you can do better. Your friends don't hate you either
As far as you saying you are over weight, you can change that! But you have to try! And believe in yourself! I know you can do it! Otherwise you wouldn't have ask these questions. Take Care! If you need some to e-mail and talk to look and my stats and theres my e-mail address, I would be gad to help you.
Do you eat and drink lots of sugar filled products and consume caffeinated beverages? If so, you need to cut way down on this. Drink lots of water and avoid consuming anything with High Fructose Corn Syrup and avoid any products that say "Diet" "low fat" and so on. This stuff will make you angry and depressed and is designed to get you to consume more and more. Please also realize that not everyone hates you. The number one thing is YOU have to learn to like yourself and others will follow!
You're one step forward since the time you realized that you need help. That means accepting that you need something to change your life. You can change your life if you would like to. What we are today is the result of the decisions we have made in our life. No one put you to that situation but you yourself so it's up to you were you would like to go with life. Before you expect others to love you, love yourself first. Try to do something with your weight because if you're not healthy enough, you'll be lazy to do things. Go back to your psychiatrist but this time be braved enough to tell him everything. The truth will set you free. I assure you that after you talked to him, it will ease the burden. But most of all, PRAY a lot. It makes wonders!Good luck!
Study! Love your family! Make new friends! Jog, Skip, Walk, Climb Stairs, Swim, Shoot Basketball, Hike, Treadmill it up, Sweat, Drink only water, Eat Salad, Eat 100% All White Chicken Breast, Learn to Love Green Beans! Forget your psychiatrist! It is all kind of simple for you since you only have a few bad problems. You are lucky because you could have serious problems!
Your grades can improve, your family may not hate you, you can get new friends, you can lose weight if you really need to (don't worry about that if you can't). Don't be ashamed, we all go through times like this. If it was a psychiatrist you think you may like, why don't you try again? It sounds as if you need someone to talk to. Psychiatrists can't repeat what you tell them, so give it a couple of sessions and see how you feel afterward.
Good luck hon. I sure hope you will be OK and start feeling better soon.
Some students get bad grades because the teacher isn't doing their job. It is possible you are of higher intelligence than your classmates and you find the classes boring. It happens. Perhaps you are more of a visual learner than audio? Ask your teacher for help.
Walking is a easy exercise that burns calories, and while walking, it is a good time to think. Eat healthy foods and cut out junk foods totally. Your weight will seem like it is melting off. Then you'll be able to think better, remember more. As soon as a person gets on some sort of exercise program they begin to feel better, stick with it and never give up, never quit trying.
Talking to another person is good. It will help you to discover why you feel the way you do. A psychiatrist can help you see things in a different light. Then you will be on your way to loving your life.
Look at the things you can change (like the grades). Ask a teacher for some extra help there.
Can you return to the psychiatrist and this time tell him/her what bugs you? They can help if you work with them.
Keep reminding yourself that this stage in your life doesn't last forever. We are constantly reinventing ourselves.
I was a nerd in high school and felt I didn't have any friends. When I went to college, I thought "hey, I'm tired of being like that," and tried to be more outgoing and social. Now, years later, people think I'm an extrovert.
Choose a thing you want to change. List some steps that work towards that. Start working on the steps. For instance, your goal could be "I want friends who like me." Ways to do that:
*join some groups/clubs/church/something
*apologize to your current friends if there was something you did to drive them away
*choose a person who interests you and start interacting with them and being nice to them
Just taking action will make you feel better and more in control of your life.
.You feel that your family hates you, you feel that your friends hate you. and now you hate yourself because of your overweight. You are worried of your academic performance First your feeling of hate should be analysed.You should write down the reasons according to your knowledge why your family hates you or is it only your feeling and not based on facts.Similarly you should analyse the reasons why your friends hate you or is it only your feeling that they hate you.I f on the basis of your analysis you find that you are resposible for the hatred, you should try to remove the causes ,I f the hatred in only a feeling and not based on facts then you should try toconvince your mind of the reality.Then about your concern for overweight.Decide what you can do about it and try to do that..Acceptance of reality is a must for peace of mind . Having done what you can within your powers, you should then try to concentrate on developing love, which is opposite of hatred.Start loving God and that is the basis of all love., start loving the God's creations[including animals , birds,] particulary the people less privilleged as compared to you, the sick and those who require your help.Do something for them within your means.Slowly your heart will open up for love and in turn you will also love yourself.Similary you should analyse why you are getting poor grades and decide what you can do about it and do it instead of worrying about it.Don't be discouraged.Many people including myself have faced similar situation like yours, you are not alone..So have faith in God and believe that He will help you to come out of the present situation and I am sure He will cetainly help you.as He has helped me.You will be nearer to God when love of God possess your mind.[Sorry no spell check]
there are already a lot of good answers. I hope you can take some encouragement from them.
Please do try again some counseling or at least find someone to reach out to.
Why do you think your friends hate you? Why does your family?
Are your perceptions of their feeling toward you off? Have you done something you think is unforgivable? anything is forgivable.
take comfort in all the answers you are getting and know that whatever you are feeling right now that "this too shall pass"
you may find a new reason to be happy and enjoy your life tomorrow... or even later today.
You have the answer to your question already. It is inside you.
You are not the first to feel this way and you will not be the last.
I once felt as you do and you can turn things around.
Just BE PATIENT with yourself and with others.
try reaching out again. Just keep trying and change will happen.
you will see....
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