I am depressed and stuck in the past, can anyone help me??


Question:
My best friend died 5 years and I can't let her go. I was six years old when it happend, do you think it traumatized me?? Please she seems to haunt me..

Answers:
its difficult when a close friend/loved one passes away but you need to stop dwelling on it, I KNOW! easier said than done, huh ? well i would seek therapy/counsler or someone you trust to talk about your feelings.getting things out is healthy for you,and from my own experience telling a complete stranger about my problems has really helped me.

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Go seek a counselor spiritual and psychological so you can move on.

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the death of any close person is traumatizing. you have my sympathy. you are having a hard time letting the past go and that is ok to some extent. however you need to focus on the good times that you had and not the bad times. speak with a good grief counsler. and find a hobby that you love! start a fundraiser in their name and donate it to a charity you think she would have loved. she is not haunting you and you need to stop thinking like that. may peace find you and good luck!


Well, I think you should write all your feelings down on a piece of paper. Also, I think you should talk to someone, perhaps a counselor at school .they will give advice on how to heal and maybe even suggest a few things you can do to move on and make you feel a little bit better.
P.S. I am sorry for your loss.

Do not feel bad about it. Death is only a part of life and she is in a better place now. It is ok to mourn someone who meant a lot to you. My best friend died only three years ago this August and it still hurts. But you need to let go of your friend and move on with your life no matter how much it hurts. As for the haunting part, I suspect that it is just the memory of her trying to tell you something. How would your freind feel if she knew you were like this? Just let go and I promise that things will work out ok in the end.


after ppl die they go on to another life,and another life
till forever,,,,,you'l see her again To meet is a pleasure and to part is always a sorrow.
Every one destined to die one day or other.That was your best friend you fell.life is not for this only please speak to your parents and brothers and sisters about this.
your life is more valid to your blood relations and if you die due to this problem what a loss you are creating to them the person who died was only your friend here you are relation.So for heaven sake be bold and face it .You forget that she was not your friend at all. That is all.
be cheerful May god bless you with all that is good to happen in life.
Good luck




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