Depression help?


Question:
Ive been trying to cope with these horrible feelings for months now, but i just cant help it anymore. I REALLY need help and I know it, but I really dont want to go to a doctor because im kinda embarassed about it, I stopped talking to friends and family because they cant help. Is there an anonymous website I can talk to someone through? Like someone I can speak with online anonymously?

Answers:
You cannot talk to a doctor but you can talk to other people with depression online. There are hotlines for suicide, but they might be able to point you in the correct direction.
I will update this post in a moment.

Here are is a post for hotlines
http://suicidehotlines.com/

You can post messages and get responses from other people with depression on
http://www.nami.org/
http://www.nami.org/template.cfm?section=communities

The second link I gave you way the communities section. The bipolar section is the most active. Those people also have depression as part of their illness. You can talk to them about going to a doctor and your fear. Just start a new post and say what you did here.

Remember doctors are there to help you and there is nothing to be embarassed about. Many people have these issues and you will feel much better with treatment. I wish you all the best and hope you get to a doctor very soon.

Other Answers:
I listen to such problems daily.. feel free to contact me.

You may be embarrassed, but there is no need to be. Psychiatrist and Psychologists are trained professionals, that can help you through your depression. I myself have had several boughts of depression and, am extremely grateful that there were professionals out there to help me.

You can even go to your regular physician, and speak with him/her about your problems. They will listen and may be able to refer you to a counselor. A counselor will help you work through your problems. Don't give up and be sure to seek professional help if you need it!!


Absolutely no reason to be embarrassed talking to a doctor about being depressed.

I understand why you wouldn't want to talk to others, because it's hard to make them understand, and like you said - they can't help, but a doctor understands the science of it and can determine what you need.

Just talking (in person or on-line) won't necessarily be enough.

I guess this isn't the answer you were looking for, but seriously, on-line groups can be great support, but are only one part of the fix. Don't limit yourself to this. Please see your doctor.


See this page under depression for natural ways to help it.

http://phifoundation.org/heal.html


Wickedness, injustice, grief, pessimism, trouble, loneliness, fear, stress, frustration, distrust, unscrupulousness, anxiety, rage, jealousy, resentment, drug addiction, immorality, gambling, prostitution, hunger, poverty, social corruption, theft, war, struggle, violence, oppression, fear of death… News about these issues appear in the newspapers and on TV every day. The popular press devotes entire pages to these subjects, while others serialise articles about their psychological and social aspects. However, our acquaintance with these feelings is not limited solely to the press; in daily life, we, too, frequently come across such problems and, more importantly, personally experience them.
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